Hello, I would really appreciate any advice you have. My partner has never been diagnosed formally with aspergers but when he visited the GP it seemed very likely he has traits of this. We have been together for 10 years and I love him dearly. We are due to marry next year but I am having doubts. I have done a lot of research regarding aspergers and I have been trying to find him employment support as he really struggles mixing with others and wants a work from home job. However, our relationship has been very stressful at times and he has got into a lot of debt (which he has now paid off) and I worry about getting married and trusting he will pay the bills and not get into debt again. He becomes very frustrated easily when I ask him how his day at work was and starts head banging and the other day he smashed up his phone when he tried to transfer money to me and he forgot his pin number on online banking. He is on the waiting list for a formal diagnosis but does anyone have suggestions on how I can support him or whether there are services that can help? As mentioned I love him very much but it is affecting me mentally and I also worry he will not find a job that suits him.