Published on 12, July, 2020
I have a hard time asking questions but I also have a harder time asking for simple favors.
I am not sure if it is my pride, but I like to prove that I don't need help from anyone, I can do it by myself. It's not right to be extreme in this and I am working on learning and improving.
I wonder if someone has similar experiences.
I always assumed I was like this because of all the times I've asked for a favour, someone says it's fine, and then later it turns out they resented having to do it or expected something in return that they didn't specify. I guess being autistic makes it more surprising when that happens, as I can't pick up on whatever hints people think they're dropping.
Yes, I can relate to this as well.