How was school for you?

I have noticed questions by carers about their children during lunch breaks. This got me thinking of my own experience.

I left school over 40 years ago and it is only in the last few years I realized I was autistic.

When I was at school a lot of lessons were quite formal which suited me. However when it came to lunchtime as all the schools I went to were nearby I went home for lunch. In the Junior school quite a few people went home for lunchtime which was nearly an hour and a half. Most occasions when I stayed it was for a club but I didn't like being at school for the whole day and especially the long lunch break.

I wonder if modern schools are more of a challenge for autistics.

  • Yeah it was pretty rough. Did people really used to go home for lunch at school? Like I went home at lunch a lot in secondary school, but that was because I hated it (bullied, few friends, had bad anxiety without knowing what it was and wanted to die a lot) and I realised that no one really noticed that I didn't show up to afternoon lessons. Tbh even after I started skipping school entirely it took several weeks for anyone to realise. I went straight from year 11 to a psych unit and the psych unit was 1000x better.

  • I hated school. I was the school pariah. Best days of my life. Not. 

  • Terrible! Until college all I wanted was to not be there but be home. I was also held back in the 3rd grade which made things even more socially awkward for me than they already were. It was kinda weird because they just held me back with no special attention afterwards. Just try again I guess?I did about the same. I don’t know if autism was even on the radar back then. If I’m even on the spectrum that is. 

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