Hi all,
So last month, on the last Thursday of the month, I tried to attend a social event hosted by NAS (or at the very least promoted by NAS on their website: https://www.autism.org.uk/directory/n/nassocial-goup-croydon). But unfortunately I couldn't find the people who were meant to be there. Additionally, the phone number, email etc. didn't work. I had to contact a lot of people to try and find out more information about the group (i.e. NAS staff unrelated to the event) and even then I couldn't find much information.
But what is strange to me is that the event was held at a pub? And a very busy one at that. It was very uncomfortable for me with so many people and loud noises. However, I still tried to stay and find the group for about an hour. I asked the bartender if she knew about the group, but she didn't know anything about it. All in all, it was an extremely stressful situation. I think it would have been worth it if I found the social group, but I didn't end up finding anyone. Is the group still active? Does anyone have any information about this group?
Why is it so hard to find autistic social groups for adults? I have tried for a very long time to find social groups - but most that I ended up finding was ones for children/young adults (<18 - I am 22) or autistic care homes.
I really really want some friends in real life. Especially someone who is autistic like me. Do you guys have any tips or know of any groups in the Croydon/London area?
yjzhou