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Having Children

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This is specifically for females, but males can answer too if they wish….

If you were diagnosed as a child, did you still want and have children when you grew up? Or did you choose not to have any?

And for those with children, who were diagnosed in middle age, do you think you would have still wanted children if you were diagnosed earlier?

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  • For those considering having children, please speak to people who grew up with autistic parents. There are common issues that can be avoided when you know what to look for and have a plan.

    Please commit to working as hard to understand your child's emotions, motivations, triggers and patterns, as you wish the adults in your life worked to understand yours. 

    It took until the third child for my mother to be able to cope with the noise and choas of kids. My cousin used to joke and say that the first two were the throw away pancakes, the first two crepes that don't go right in every batch. 

  • in reply to NAS80706

    Yes, there are definitely common issues that many of us will encounter.  The way in can be problematic though, as families/individuals would need to realise that they're autistic or otherwise neurodivergent.  And in our family this has only happened quite recently.  Still, some of it applies generally as part of good parenting.    

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  • in reply to NAS80706

    Yes, there are definitely common issues that many of us will encounter.  The way in can be problematic though, as families/individuals would need to realise that they're autistic or otherwise neurodivergent.  And in our family this has only happened quite recently.  Still, some of it applies generally as part of good parenting.    

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