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Is divorce a better option

Weazelbeast

The past year has bee  a nightmare for my family. Constant anxiety..struggling....talking about my peoblwm over and over. Alot of blame on myself for being less than ideal..feeling like a grown manchild constanyl on edge with reaponaibility when im only doong bare minimum as it is.

I dont see how we can ever be a functional family with my list of deficits...codependancy and wanting sameness over moving up in world.

I feel she would be better moving on from me. I cant seem to get my head around myself and when i realise im really nor thinking like an adult i fear she will never jabe an equal. 

Life has fallen apart and i want so little as an adult i seem.jaded by life itself...just following. With all these issues should i just accept what might be inevitable...that my needs will be too mixh for a nt to hold as baggage...least with someone else they may move towards goals rather than my anxiety laden existance.

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  • So what if you’re childish. We’re you childish when she married you? She loved you then. What do you think has changed?

    you say equal maybe she doesn’t see it that way. Maybe she sees things of value in you you bring she doesn’t see in herself?

  • in reply to Peter

    Its more that i cant accept whats being said. Everyone is very adamant im forcing myself to anxiety over doing things. The more i do the more i feel avoidant. I keep taking steps but i constantly feel a pull to do little. Its confusing and also makes me very rigid in not wanting much...its lile 2 minds fighting. I feel like Everything i do leads me closer to a pace i wont handle or understand how to. I do agree with blue please remove mt posts regarding suicide

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  • in reply to Peter

    Its more that i cant accept whats being said. Everyone is very adamant im forcing myself to anxiety over doing things. The more i do the more i feel avoidant. I keep taking steps but i constantly feel a pull to do little. Its confusing and also makes me very rigid in not wanting much...its lile 2 minds fighting. I feel like Everything i do leads me closer to a pace i wont handle or understand how to. I do agree with blue please remove mt posts regarding suicide

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