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Suicidal

Weazelbeast
over 1 year ago

Ill cut to the chase. I am struggling like hell to cope. Not because of my child but my own ability to adult. It is so hard to get through a day even though in reality there is not much on me. I do the chores...fòod..washing etc and watch tv with her but i only go to park etc so often. I feel like a kid myself amd anything beyond basic parenting does not compute so anything like planning trips...activities etc is not my fortay. I feel incredibly guilty for it and lately been so depressed i hardly interact. I was always silly..fun gamer dad but now im in a more responsible role im finding it almost impossible to think. Im stuck in self loathing for it amd feel like my life has turned into a disaster.

  • over 1 year ago

    This is autism tormenting you, but you can be strong and beat that self loathing. Learn to love yourself. Find enjoyment somewhere. Try ego strengthening hypnosis on Spotify. You can do it

  • over 1 year ago in reply to Weazelbeast

    Have you talked to your wife about any of this?

  • over 1 year ago

    I am genuinely sick and tired of people posting about suicide on this website. 

    for forks sake you have a child, so worried about yourself and how your feeling and not recognising how forking lucky you are. 

    so what, your not a typical father. But your also not a single parent and its a privilege to raise a child. As long as your their and you provide unconditionally love nothing else matters.

    instead of avoid talking about it, just say it because it’s not uncommon for typical fathers to feel regret of having a child and feel guilty for feeling that way.

    or your finding it difficult because being a parent means sacrificing things you once had time to do. 

    it’s too late, just get in with it and stop complaining about it. 

  • over 1 year ago

    Hi Weazelbeast,

    I’m sorry you are going through such a tough time, it’s good that you’ve let us know what’s happening/how you feel.
    Many people have similar thoughts when coping with so much and we hope you’re okay.

    If you are unable to cope with the distress or despair, it’s very important to tell someone about your feelings or thoughts of suicide. Call your GP and make an urgent appointment. Your GP can make sure you get appropriate help and support.

    If it’s outside your GP hours call 111 to reach the NHS 111 service:

    https://www.nhs.uk/nhs-services/urgent-and-emergency-care-services/when-to-use-111/

    The Samaritans also provide confidential non-judgemental emotional support, 24 hours a day on 116 123, or by email on jo@samaritans.org.

    MIND have information pages on coping with self harm or suicidal feelings based on the experiences of people who’ve been through it that you may find helpful.

    If you are very close to doing something to hurt yourself - call 999 now or go to your nearest A&E department. There should be someone there to support you and make sure you get ongoing support.

    You can find more information here: https://www.autism.org.uk/advice-and-guidance/topics/mental-health/suicide

    Best wishes,
    Kevin Mod