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Problems with work / Advice about Universal Credit and PIP

Billy87
over 2 years ago

Hello,

I know I have posted about work problems on here before but I need some advice after today.

So today I had a complete breakdown about going to work. It has been bad for a while but today was the worst. I ended up curled up on the bathroom floor crying and screaming for about 20 minutes. Once I finally got in the car (my wife was driving) I was shaking uncontrollably and babbling hysterically, saying the same sentances over and over again really fast. I was scratching my hair and hitting my head with my hand. 

We had to give up and turn home.

First of all I wanted to ask if anyone else has had experiences like this about going to work?

Secondly, if I leave my job because of mental health problems and autism will it affect Universal Credit? We currently have a claim as my wife only works part time, not sure if we would get more or less if I was out of work with stress

Thirdly, how does PIP payments work? A friend of my wifes told me about it today, not sure if I would be eligable but my anxiety is so bad I am at the point where I pyshically cannot go to work

(Bear in mind I am still waiting for my official autism diagnosis. I have been on the waiting list for that since September, not long I know)

Any help with any of this I would be really grateful for 

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  • over 2 years ago

    I have been signed off work since October. Diagnosed ADHD in November. Now awaiting medication....

    I have had the OT phonecall and the guy was useless! Didnt have a clue what ADHD was (even though i emailed my diagnosis letter explaining it)or what suggestions to make going back to work better for me. The report said bugger all basically so now I have an upcoming return to work meeting to look at 'reasonable adjustments'.

    I feel the same. The time off hasnt helped much just more time to zone out and wander around the house. I miss my job but at the same time terrified to go back and make any mistake. I thrive on routine and organisation. When u take that away I feel lost and unsure of everything. I barely leave my house, only to work. I would be ok at work but the second I stepped in my door, I would cry or be very aggitated trying to process my day of what the hell just happened! 

    Contemplating whether or not to return to my job as it clearly overwhelms me. But the other option is what?? Do nothing?? I need an income to pay bills etc. Unless my dream job of being outdoors on my own exists...errr nope it doesnt. Jobs these days are fast paced,bright,shiny,noisy and too peopley x

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  • over 2 years ago

    I have been signed off work since October. Diagnosed ADHD in November. Now awaiting medication....

    I have had the OT phonecall and the guy was useless! Didnt have a clue what ADHD was (even though i emailed my diagnosis letter explaining it)or what suggestions to make going back to work better for me. The report said bugger all basically so now I have an upcoming return to work meeting to look at 'reasonable adjustments'.

    I feel the same. The time off hasnt helped much just more time to zone out and wander around the house. I miss my job but at the same time terrified to go back and make any mistake. I thrive on routine and organisation. When u take that away I feel lost and unsure of everything. I barely leave my house, only to work. I would be ok at work but the second I stepped in my door, I would cry or be very aggitated trying to process my day of what the hell just happened! 

    Contemplating whether or not to return to my job as it clearly overwhelms me. But the other option is what?? Do nothing?? I need an income to pay bills etc. Unless my dream job of being outdoors on my own exists...errr nope it doesnt. Jobs these days are fast paced,bright,shiny,noisy and too peopley x

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