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Autism and Right To Choose.

Alex

Hello Forum, 

My apologises for this post. I am a little lost and confused around the right to choose scheme in the UK, regarding autistic diagnosis. 

I'll provide some back story to provide context. I have been under various mental health teams for the past 6 years, and was under Coventry and Warwickshire's waiting list for an autism diagnosis. 1 year ago,  I moved to Staffordshire and have been told I will have to start from scratch with my diagnosis pathway. 

I have been referred to, and am in contact with AAA, a Black Country and Staffordshire based provider for diagnosis but haven't been given a time frame for my assessment.

Prior to this, I was informed by my initial assessor in Coventry to self diagnose, due to numerous reasons and including my aq50 score of 43/50. I even scored 43/50 on my aq50 for AAA black country and Staffordshire. 

I've been waiting near 6 years for a diagnosis now and really struggle socially, finding work and feel like my life hasn't moved on in the last few years. would anyone have any support or guidance for me? 

Specifically on whether autistic diagnosis can make use of the right to choose scheme in the UK. I don't think I can wait another 6 years as I'm pretty much homeless and jobless as it is. 

Thank you for your time in reading my question. 

Kind regards,

Alex

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  • Diagnosis doesn't seem to open ANY DOORS at all. (I hope to be corrected) 

    The only advantage to knowing seems to be a reduction in personal confusion, and reduced expectations all round.

    Concentrate on not being a pain in the backside to those who are close to you, and remembering that they have to make adjustments every day in order to not get annoyed with you. 

    Some NT's will "shield you" some will "enable" you & most will persecute you or obstruct your progress in some way because they don't like the cut of your jib. 

  • in reply to I Sperg

    Reminds me of the closest woman I had to a Girlfriend. She was the Primary Carer for her autistic brother, and has him mollycoddled. I had no one looking after me, with the same condition as him, but had to look after myself. Just now, I've stuck another load of laundry on and decluttered my attic these past few weeks.

    "He who is carried has no idea how far the village is." (Nigerian Proverb)

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  • in reply to I Sperg

    Reminds me of the closest woman I had to a Girlfriend. She was the Primary Carer for her autistic brother, and has him mollycoddled. I had no one looking after me, with the same condition as him, but had to look after myself. Just now, I've stuck another load of laundry on and decluttered my attic these past few weeks.

    "He who is carried has no idea how far the village is." (Nigerian Proverb)

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