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Asd meltdowns.

Hi my daughter/son as asd. But as so many meltdowns were he bites his self punchs walls and bangs his head on floor. Hes also transgender wanting to be a boy instead of a girl.he dosnt go out of house cos of anxity. His safe place is his bedroom. He is 17 and i dont know what i can do to help him. Please can anyone give me advice . He also tells me he wishes he was dead.

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    do not listen to all the shills on this site, they are writing virtue signalling comments for the sake of social points. i suspect alot of them are even NTs with the way they try to push a square peg into a round hole and then threaten everyone else with hate speech laws when people point out that doesnt fit there.

    if you want true advice you wont get it here, all you will get is generic comments that are about as good as "thoughts and prayers" and when you get a good real comment everyone will get it deleted.... you cannot get advice here im sorry to say. too many lying NTs posing for social credit score here.

    changing gender is like getting a tattoo these days.... most tattoos people regret but tattoos can be removed, although some still feel regret and trapped with those tattoos and dont know how to remove them... dont let social scientists and influencers force your daughter into doing something destructive, this is not a tattoo.... this is more permanent and damaging and there is many examples of regrets on this type of thing, like the guy that became the cat man, he regret that so much and couldnt undo it that ....well you can research it yourself.... be careful with these permanent changes and ignore all of these virtue signalling charlatans that will spout a load of generic nonsense that they feel you want to hear and feel that will give them some sort of social virtue points with others.... dont trust those people... 

  • That is not an appropriate response! Just because YOU don't understand or recognise transgenderism, you have no business spouting your hate on here. As usual, you have no idea what you're talking about but feel you should, as with every thread, stick your oar in. This mother needs advice, not transphobia!

  • marvel is better than DC

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  • also i now suspect that your a twitter type fake lefty and possibly a NT who is just chasing labels for the sake of social gain and weird online social points.... you dont speak or think autistic enough, you are a social lie peddler who then forces your social lies with hate speach laws, which is the NT thing to do.... you dont go by logic or thinking for yourself... why dont we debate, how do you make a genetic woman into a man? .... tell me how that works and why is it that a historian who digs up your bones will not see you change of gender and instead see your birth gender from your remains? doesnt that mean the transition didnt truly change you and is all for show? tell me without the lies, tell me with logic how it works.... logically it doesnt work doesnt it? ... but yet you want to force by way of law the lie that it does work? for social points? ..... now isnt that rather neurotypical of you? 

  • They'll laugh you out of the station. But go ahead. With luck they'll arrest you for your hate speech. Maybe that's where I should report you, rather than this website. You DO realise that saying what you're saying is illegal? "Hate speech laws in England and Wales are found in several statutes. Expressions of hatred toward someone on account of that person's colour, race, disability, nationality (including citizenship), ethnic or national origin, religion, GENDER REASSIGNMENT, or sexual orientation is forbidden. ANY COMMUNICATION WHICH IS threatening or ABUSIVE, and is intended to harass, alarm, or DISTRESS someone is forbidden. The penalties for hate speech include fines, imprisonment, or both.

  • aha so your a DC comics extremist? i shall report you to the police station for your love of DC, for the police are clearly all marvel fans!

  • I've reported you for hate speech.