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Asd meltdowns.

Hi my daughter/son as asd. But as so many meltdowns were he bites his self punchs walls and bangs his head on floor. Hes also transgender wanting to be a boy instead of a girl.he dosnt go out of house cos of anxity. His safe place is his bedroom. He is 17 and i dont know what i can do to help him. Please can anyone give me advice . He also tells me he wishes he was dead.

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    do not listen to all the shills on this site, they are writing virtue signalling comments for the sake of social points. i suspect alot of them are even NTs with the way they try to push a square peg into a round hole and then threaten everyone else with hate speech laws when people point out that doesnt fit there.

    if you want true advice you wont get it here, all you will get is generic comments that are about as good as "thoughts and prayers" and when you get a good real comment everyone will get it deleted.... you cannot get advice here im sorry to say. too many lying NTs posing for social credit score here.

    changing gender is like getting a tattoo these days.... most tattoos people regret but tattoos can be removed, although some still feel regret and trapped with those tattoos and dont know how to remove them... dont let social scientists and influencers force your daughter into doing something destructive, this is not a tattoo.... this is more permanent and damaging and there is many examples of regrets on this type of thing, like the guy that became the cat man, he regret that so much and couldnt undo it that ....well you can research it yourself.... be careful with these permanent changes and ignore all of these virtue signalling charlatans that will spout a load of generic nonsense that they feel you want to hear and feel that will give them some sort of social virtue points with others.... dont trust those people... 

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  • edited tldr:

    do not listen to all the shills on this site, they are writing virtue signalling comments for the sake of social points. i suspect alot of them are even NTs with the way they try to push a square peg into a round hole and then threaten everyone else with hate speech laws when people point out that doesnt fit there.

    if you want true advice you wont get it here, all you will get is generic comments that are about as good as "thoughts and prayers" and when you get a good real comment everyone will get it deleted.... you cannot get advice here im sorry to say. too many lying NTs posing for social credit score here.

    changing gender is like getting a tattoo these days.... most tattoos people regret but tattoos can be removed, although some still feel regret and trapped with those tattoos and dont know how to remove them... dont let social scientists and influencers force your daughter into doing something destructive, this is not a tattoo.... this is more permanent and damaging and there is many examples of regrets on this type of thing, like the guy that became the cat man, he regret that so much and couldnt undo it that ....well you can research it yourself.... be careful with these permanent changes and ignore all of these virtue signalling charlatans that will spout a load of generic nonsense that they feel you want to hear and feel that will give them some sort of social virtue points with others.... dont trust those people... 

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  • That is not an appropriate response! Just because YOU don't understand or recognise transgenderism, you have no business spouting your hate on here. As usual, you have no idea what you're talking about but feel you should, as with every thread, stick your oar in. This mother needs advice, not transphobia!

  • This just doesn't seem helpful - if these aren't things you personally struggle with, it's OK to not engage. In fact, there are so many topics and discussions, it might be useful to occasionally pass over a few and not add to the post, keep all your responses as 'secrets' or a pause for the cause. I don't like to create more confusion if it's needless. 

    Most of what you have said is better presented and served and exposed by a female who transitioned or thought about transitioning - from his/her or their perspective. Most of what you've stated doesn't get to the heart of this matter. Gender is completely irrelevant if I want to kill myself.

    It's OK here to simply 1. allow yourself to feel the emotional turbulance of this individual and the individuals who hurt for them. And 2. Not respond or just say "I feel for you". It's OK to afford another a moment in their post and to let it be all about them. Creating a discipline or exorcizing ones need to info-dump when it's not about something enjoyable is worth the mental workout in a situation where: 1. it doesn't apply to my experience and 2. suicide is mentioned.