Is it fair for parents to shout at you?

yes, sometimes,  what did u do wrong ? parents get angry because they are stressed just like you, ure mum is human too. 

what did u do wrong ?  is ur mum autistic ?  mine is ( un- diagnosed of course )

Well, my mum want's me to do stuff like clean and stuff the way she does it, But I tend to do stuff my own way as everyone else does. She says I'm lazy and don't help. I have ADD and i can be slow and for me, I only help someone if they ask for help. So far no, she shows no signs of autism, anger management yes

Mac78321 said:

I only help someone if they ask for help.

That sounds a bit selfish.

Do you not feel any personal responsibility to help your mum look after you?       Disability is not really an excuse to be selfish - it just means there may be limits to your ability.

Well. taking the bins out, cleaning, decorating yes that's all me that does that. I understand what I said might sound a bit wrong, I have a hard time explaining things. But you both have made me think about a few things, Thanks 

Well. taking the bins out, cleaning, decorating yes that's all me that does that. I understand what I said might sound a bit wrong, I have a hard time explaining things. But you both have made me think about a few things, Thanks