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Moving forwards with Autism

Kitsune

One thing that I’ve been wondering for the past few days, is how will I move forwards with Autism after the ‘post diagnosis phase’ has passed? Right now, a little over 9 months post-diagnosis, I’m still very much in the phase of reconciling with ‘being autistic’, of chatting with other autistic people on here and trying to ‘find my feet’ as a newly diagnosed autistic adult. But what happens afterwards? What happens once I have reconciled and found my feet? What parts of my old life will stay the same and what will change, what changes do I need to make to my life to move forwards with Autism? Sorry this is a bit of a Philosophical thread! What do others think? What parts of your life need to change to accommodate being autistic? Do you even think that you need to make any changes?

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  • I think we each find our own individual ways of coming to terms with the diagnosis and living on with it. I feel my own personal aims and hopefully solutions are down to my life experiences, including much abuse I’m afraid, that has forced me to be the resourceful person I am now. I realise other people’s life experiences are entirely different, but that for myself I have the ability to choose whether to be a victim or a survivor in my mindset. 

    I’ll always be able to live on very little, but again that’s down to my past too. 

    Otherwise, Aidie seems to be doing the steps I am trying to. 

    Only change is that I need to recognise when I actually do need help and have to sort out ways of asking the right people in a way they recognise. So maybe I need to work on self esteem and trust. 

    It would be great to meet someone and chat about little problems, or big ones, but services don’t seem to provide for autistic adults at all and it’s hard to find similarly challenged older people who want to discuss how to overcome problems. To share ideas and experiences. I’m not readily understood either, which makes it seem easier not to talk at all. 

  • in reply to Justanothernobody

    You took the word out of my mouth....i could so easily have written the same as you...but not quite as lucidly maybe! Heres another nobody saying hi and thanks for your post.

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