Hi
This is my first contribution to this forum.
I am finding it difficult to go out of the house because we have a rather nosey neighbour.
I am an over anxious,over sensitive panicky overthinker and avoid confrontation if at all possible.
My neighbour has some issues with us, one being my daughter (also on spectrum) and I don't talk to her. I told her her and I are on Austistic spectrum. ( We were advised to get diagnosis but I didn't want diagnosis)
She said I didn't know meaning of the word and I needed to look in a dictionary.
- This week I needed to go in car...I could see she was outside. She sat near where I had to reverse. I couldn't speak to her and had a meltdown and ran to other neighbour. She has commented that I always cry.
I have told her I was scared to come in at the end of day after work and she wasn't very supportive. If she is in front garden I have driven round until she goes.
I have said that it's best we don't talk as she only complains. She has said that we are rude and filthy.
I have spent last week's tidying and decorating so she can't complain.
Other people says she's a bully but I think my social communication and anxiety aren't helping situation and I just keep bursting into tears.
She has said that she is keeping CCTV footage of us as evidence .
Any advice would be appreciated.
