this youtube series is brilliant
3/28/19 - April 2019:Subjects Addressed in this Episode: Personal Management Issues- Drugs and Coping with Life - Starts at 2:40 Dealing with Change- Changing Tasks - Starts at 6:30 Self-Esteem/Self-Identity and "Faking It"- Finding Myself - Starts at 8:46Intimacy, Dating, Sex and Marriage- Discussing Issues - Starts at 11:08- Dating Tips - Starts at 15:53 - Breaking Up with an Aspie - Starts at 17:47 Gender Dysphoria- Find out "Why?" - Starts at 20:20 Meltdowns - Tips to Diffuse - Starts at 24:54 Anxiety - What's Causing? - Starts at 29:29 - Meds and School - Starts at 32:05 Living With Autism - Is it Increasing? - Starts at 35:45 - Companion Animals - Starts at 38:32 - Autism and PTSD - Start at 40:37 Thriving with Autism - Not. Giving. Up. - Starts at 42:14 Previous questions to Dr. Attwood have been incorporated into a book titled "Ask Dr. Tony", published by Future Horizons and is now available at a book store near you (or online).
Found alot of his stuff brilliant, but he does make alot of joke at autistic peoples expense at his live talks. He admitted that at a conference in Sheffield recently when talking to some autistic advocates. He is scheduled to be doing a live cast with agony autie towards the end of the month which should be very good.
I was shocked to recently realise the extent of Tony Atwood’s ‘jokes’ about Autism! Should. Know. Better!
Yeah I was disgusted to, so were the autistic advocates that pulled him up on it mid speech in Sheffield! He has agreed that he does need to change the narrative, hence the live cast with agony autie, that should definitely be worth a watch. But at least he is arguing against the myth autistic people lack empathy and that women can be alot more subtle and are going undiagnosed so at least that's something
Genuine question: When does relating an anecdote about an autistic person become a joke at their expense?
I've not read any of his books or seen his talks - I've only read his forewords to other writers books or read his words in those books where he's referred to, so I don't have any direct knowledge of the types of 'jokes' he's made.
Also, is he pitching autism to NTs or to autistics?
If the former, then the 'jokes' could just be bad attempts to 'humanise' autistics... which literally as I write that has struck me as disgusting...
If the latter then maybe it's a poor attempt to show he 'gets' us?
Does he have ASD? If not, then I'd dispute how he can be the "World's foremost expert on autism" - mind you that's NT slippery speak conflating 'best known' / 'most published' i.e. 'popular' with 'factually correct' and 'knowledgeable'...
There are a bunch of scientific discoveries for example credited to NT scientists that were likely actually made by autisties/aspies - but they didn't publish so someone else got the credit...
I think he has an son with autism, remember him. Mentioning in a talk
I found his explanations for the female representation of autism really useful.
Iistened to a few of his talks didn't hear the jokes, maybe that's just my trait not always getting jokes.
Yes, he has a son with autism. The son had a really bad time, with drugs and prison. In fact, the son was diagnosed in prison in his 30s
Yes, his female phenotypes are invaluable. he helped me "diagnose" my partner.
Good to know.
Agreed autism people have empathy.