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Quiet!

Bookworm

Is it just me or does anybody else just want to shout, Shut up'! I'm staying at my mum's for the night, so say, for a bit of peace and quiet but she just talks and talks.... I'm not having the best times at the moment and all I want is quiet and to shout, ' shut up'! I am the sort of person that likes peace and quiet anyway and I thought coming to my mum's she might understand but she doesn't, is it just me or do others feel liķe this? I feel really awful and disrespectful but I just want some quiet to get my thoughts together but it seems at the moment I don't have anywhere I can go to do this. I'm beginning to understand people that want to go 'off grid'.

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  • I have been known to just ask my mum to be quiet or tell her that I don't care when she's talking at me, especially when she's telling me stuff about her friends.  I mean, I don't really know these people so to be honest, I really don't care, and she has this annoying habit of saying 'my friend x...' and explaining who they are when I am well aware already (I don't know if she forgets I have met most of the people she talks about, or if she thinks I'll have forgotten, but it's very annoying). I try and act like I'm listening and interested but it just really grinds my gears sometimes. Feel a bit bad about it, but thankfully she doesn't usually take it personally. If I'm going for a gentler approach, I make an excuse to go off and do something in another room, or say I have to do some work so I can stick my headphones on.

  • in reply to Boating_taxonomist
    Boating_taxonomist said:
    she has this annoying habit of saying 'my friend x...' and explaining who they are when I am well aware already

    That's probably better than my mum where conversations go:

    Mum: You know my friend Sylvie?

    Me: No

    Mum: Yes you do, she's Graham's sister's cousins daughter's friend...

    Me: Graham who?

    Mum (frustrated): Used to live next door to old Mrs Cobblepot, when you were at playgroup...

    Me: Mum, I have no idea who any of these people are... why are you telling me this???

    Mum: You DO know them, anyway - Sylvie said blah blah blah...

    Me: <disengages and lets the sound wash over me like surf>

    Hours pass...

    Mum: ... and that's why I couldn't get carrots for dinner!

    Me: Confounded

  • in reply to Original Prankster

    My wife used to get that from her mum. "You watch Coronation Street don't you?" / "No mum" / "What do you think to Ken Barlow's girlfriend?".

    Reminds me of when I was getting stick from my family for drifting off at mealtimes when elder stepdaughter would be telling us about her day, in that teenage way of telling stories backwards:

    "OMG it was well bad because Sarah had to go to hospital 'cos Freya was in a right state 'cos the dog bit John, and then Sam had to comfort her 'cos Julie had to go for a wee 'cos she'd left her lunch at home".

    I decided to deploy my newly-acquired workplace coaching skills, both as a way of demonstrating interest and to stop myself falling asleep in my dinner.

    "OMG it was well bad because Sarah...."

    Me: "Sorry, who's Sarah?"

    "Sarah - James' brother - anyway it doesn't matter"

    "OK"

    "OMG it was well bad because Sarah had to go to hospital 'cos Freya was in a right state .........."

    Me: "How, specifically, did Freya's agitated mental state cause Sarah to need to go to the hospital?"

    Wife: "Why are you being such a tw** tonight?"

    Can't win :-)

  • in reply to I'm done with Christmas Cards

    Lol, That sounds like Vicky Pollard from Little Britain, 'well bad', made me chuckle...

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