Published on 12, July, 2020
Hi, I live on my own and have, with careful planning, decided to get a dog. She’s 1 1/2 years old. I’ve had her a week now and she is everything I could have wanted. I go out and talk to people in which I never did before. The problem being that I’m struggling to deal with the life style change and change to routine. I know it was part in parcel of having her but it still didn’t prepare me for the emotions it has brought with it. I just wanted to ask if it gets easier or any tips on coping. Thank you in advance
Hi Nicola it is so lovely to hear about your dog. I am sure as time goes on you will settle into a routine together. My last dog lived to 12.5 years old and his routine changed slightly as he got older and developed heart problems. When he was younger he was very lively but lovable although the postman wouldn't agree with this!
I adopted a six year old dog 12 weeks ago. As time has gone in she has got more settled. She can be quite demanding sometimes - whining and seeking attention for no obvious reason. She has been walked and fed, gone to the loo and I am not sure what she wants. If that coincides with me feeling tired or overwhelmed it can be difficult. I often ending up putting her on my lap where she sleeps for hours at a time!
On days like today when it is cold and rainy I like the fact that my dog makes me get up and go out. She is also a great talking point with other people. We have found some nice dog friendly cafes and pubs to go to. If I find it too much I can always go out for a short walk with her.
In my experience having a dog gets easier and easier, unless they get ill which is hard. I am sure you will have a lovely time together. A week is a very short time for her to settle down. It took my dog a few weeks to wag her tail and I was so thrilled when she finally did!
Thank you very much for your positive words. She’s is a lovely little girl and I feel very guilty that I’m more stressed than happy but it’s very reassuring to hear everyone’s comments that it gets easier
Oh no I do walk her aswell. She gets two good walks everyday
I think any dogs needs to be walked, because it is better for them. But I see the benefit of peeing in your garden.
You can easily teach her that by complimenting her if she pees. If she pees and you say 'pee' she'll know very fast what the idea is.
I take her out into the garden regularly so my fingers are crossed she gives in and goes back to going like she did last week. I can’t imagine the stress she’s been under the last month
I saw in my email that she came from Ireland, but can no longer find that answer here. And I couldn't get on the site anymore last night.
The flight must have streased her out, and she might still be recovering.
You can train her to do whatever she needs to do in the same spots.
Lovely name Bella! We had a cat called Tigger for many years. He died when he was 14. I have always loved animals - they can be so affectionate and I find them easy to spend time with.
I read something like this the other day. I bet they can. Yes agree my cats when I were younger were amazing but haven’t done as much effect my little girl has. Mine is called Bella
Thank you
My little dog has meltdowns when she gets overtired. I am beginning to wonder if animals can be autistic. Off to Google it now! A cat would be quieter but would not get me out of the house as much as my dog does. She is called Izzy (she came with that name).
It does get easier. No worries. It is also normal, you just have to get used to each other and she doesn't know your rhythm yet. You both need to adjust :-)