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False Promises and Lies

Giddy

Why do people lie and say they're going to do something then don't bother it really frustrates the hell out of me when people say yes im going to do that for you and then don't arrrgghhh

it really makes me so angry ... if i say im going to do something i do it so why do people lie i would rather they said maybe or i will try but im not promising at least i would be prepared then

does anyone else suffer this problem and get really angry when people let them down ?

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  • Neurotypicals have a very low say/do ratio - they promise a lot to everyone to make themselves feel good but continually fail to deliver. Get used to it. It's normal for all of them. They live this way being useless to each other and it doesn't seem to bother them. They don't even register it as lying.

    ASD people tend to be a bit more methodical and precise about these details.

    This is one of the major incompatibilities that I have when dealing with NTs. I had a manager that was so bad that my ability to talk to him was reduced almost to F*** OFF.

    Luckily, I worked on my own most of the time so didn't have to deal with them.

  • in reply to Plastic

    i just find it so annoying one of the people who does this is someone who knows how much it annoys me yet still does it

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