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Ladies in the 30s in North West Wales - social group

NAS91946

Hi all,

 I'm 30f late diagnosed at 29. Whilst the diagnosis has been helpful in the sense it's been very validating it has also led to a lot of frustration because nothing has changed. There's no support around here and I still feel like I can't find my tribe which is what I was hoping the diagnosis  would lead to. I have a hypotheses we're all just hiding indoors because let's face it life has beaten us millennials up quiet a bit and for us it came with added spiciness. And if your like me you're feeling lonely and defeated. I want friends in my life but just can't seem to get past that acquaintance stage.

Whether your officially diagnosed or self diagnosed and live in the north West Wales area (Angelsey, Gwynedd, Conwy ) I was wondering if anyone wants to make a social group. Maybe we just start on here first and see where and when would be best for everyone.

Whilst I've always felt I get along with guys better, it has never ended up well for me with them turning out to have unspoken intentions that I did not agree or wish for hence why I'm starting with ladies only...sorry boys. 

So please feel free to say hello! It's starting to feel a bit empty here.

  • in reply to CrazyCatLady91

    Imagine the possibilities...oh yeah I'm just popping over for Barbados for my lunch break Surfer here's to hoping they figure out before we're too old ! 

  • in reply to Tulip52

    This is a great idea. Although Im not sure how successful it'll be if I was running it See no evil I wouldn't have the capacity to take such a huge task on at the moment between my toddler and full time work. Currently sat here feeling fried Joy let me know if you start running a group and where tho!  

  • in reply to NAS91946

    A teleportation device is something I have actually always wanted. You never know, we might one day have the technology for it to become a reailty. Slight smile

  • I think it's a great idea to start a social group. Is there a Community centre in your area? That may be worth visiting and see if there is anyone there that could help promote your idea? You can usually use community centres free and who knows there may be funding available to help set up the group.

    I have started talking to people who I feel comfortable with about setting up a peer support group, but I haven't got any further than that. I will keep you posted. How about contacting the NW integrated autism service and let them know your interest in doing this. Maybe they could provide you with some encouragement? Please keep us posted x

  • in reply to CrazyCatLady91

    Hello !!! Thanks for reaching out :) 

    Im one of these people that like to meet people face to face, I find it more meaningful and less tiring ( because of my dyslexia). All I can say is why do you have to live all the way in Birmingham!See no evil Maybe you can buy a teleportation device See no evil

  • Hello!


    Like many of us on here, I can relate to your situation. I too am in my 30s and don't have any real life friends either. I usually get on with people, but that's as far as it goes. The only friends I have are online.

    I am in Birmingham, so quite a distance from you. But I am happy to chat to you on here at any time should you wish to do so. Slight smile