Friendships

How do I build up a wall in my heart against getting hurt in a friendship, when a colleague doesn't want to have the same intensity of friendship as I do. I normally don't let anyone get close to me, but if there's someone who I connect with I can't help but feel like I've been best friends with them for years and the friendship isn't reciprocated in the same way. The other person is more polite than wanting to build a close friendship. I don't know how to pull my friendship and heart back. Can anyone give me advice plz x

Parents
  • I have met people through work but never really had that open conversation with them as to whether they feel comfortable with being on those closer terms outside of work. I should have done, and it's one of my biggest regrets.

    I was too careless and reckless, I just assumed that they were and I ended up damaging relationships if anything. 

Reply
  • I have met people through work but never really had that open conversation with them as to whether they feel comfortable with being on those closer terms outside of work. I should have done, and it's one of my biggest regrets.

    I was too careless and reckless, I just assumed that they were and I ended up damaging relationships if anything. 

Children
No Data