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Sensory discomfort genitals

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Hello,

I wondered if anyone has been in a similar position and has any advice.

My daughter (5) is an autistic ADHDer. She has massive sensory discomfort from clothing generally, but over the last few weeks she is increasingly uncomfortable even when naked.

She has said today she doesn’t like her vulva as there are bits that aren’t flat and flush to her body. 

We have always used correct a anatomical terms and hopefully created a open dialogue about bodies without shame. She just doesn’t like the wet sensation or feel. I’m at a total loss! 

Her self injurious behaviours are getting worse and she has threatened to ‘rip it off’. We have a CAHMS in 3 weeks but thought someone may have experienced the same. 

Thanks 

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  • yeah sticky out parts are always uncomfortable, why do you think men do the man spreading thing? because bringing their knees in actually crush their sticky out bits and those are sensitive as its literally a internal organ that was developed in the abdomen sticking out with no protection.... dont think she is trans though, as you said yourself she wants it to be flat and flush... so clearly she isnt trans as a alternative of a penis is NOT flat and flush at all right?


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  • yeah sticky out parts are always uncomfortable, why do you think men do the man spreading thing? because bringing their knees in actually crush their sticky out bits and those are sensitive as its literally a internal organ that was developed in the abdomen sticking out with no protection.... dont think she is trans though, as you said yourself she wants it to be flat and flush... so clearly she isnt trans as a alternative of a penis is NOT flat and flush at all right?


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