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Sensory discomfort genitals

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Hello,

I wondered if anyone has been in a similar position and has any advice.

My daughter (5) is an autistic ADHDer. She has massive sensory discomfort from clothing generally, but over the last few weeks she is increasingly uncomfortable even when naked.

She has said today she doesn’t like her vulva as there are bits that aren’t flat and flush to her body. 

We have always used correct a anatomical terms and hopefully created a open dialogue about bodies without shame. She just doesn’t like the wet sensation or feel. I’m at a total loss! 

Her self injurious behaviours are getting worse and she has threatened to ‘rip it off’. We have a CAHMS in 3 weeks but thought someone may have experienced the same. 

Thanks 

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  • Hello - 

    I don't have children and I won't pretend I have the first clue about them, but what stands out to me is that she's aiming her hatred and aggression at a part of her body that signifies her gender. Could it be that she doesn't feel inside that she conforms to her gender outside? I have heard similar thought processes (hate, rejection, disgust) out of the mouths of gender non conforming people as adults, reflecting on their childhoods. 

    I am particularly alarmed to hear she could be at risk of hurting herself. She's so little and innocent :( I hope you get the help you need soon.

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  • Hello - 

    I don't have children and I won't pretend I have the first clue about them, but what stands out to me is that she's aiming her hatred and aggression at a part of her body that signifies her gender. Could it be that she doesn't feel inside that she conforms to her gender outside? I have heard similar thought processes (hate, rejection, disgust) out of the mouths of gender non conforming people as adults, reflecting on their childhoods. 

    I am particularly alarmed to hear she could be at risk of hurting herself. She's so little and innocent :( I hope you get the help you need soon.

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