Beauty

I put this in the women and girls section cause I read it's something we struggle with a lot but I bet a lot of men and boys do 2 so anyone can respond to this

I feel ugly and like I have to constantly make sure I look my best. Imma constantly analysing every little thing about myself and other girls in my class. But no matter how much I do and try I still feel imperfect and ugly

Ive looked up tips and vids online to help but nothing made a difference yet

Is this some thing you struggle with 2?

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  • Imperfections make us unique. They give gemstones value. Perfect gemstones are not naturally made and not worth much. This is the same with art. There's nothing like a trip to an art gallery to redefine how to perceive and curate beauty. Beauty is an internal structure spilling over into it's exteriors. We desire hidden imperfections. 

    This is the best advice I received: Create a synchronicity and alignment of who you are internally and it will spill out. Begin to seek out beauty in the world around and it will find you. This may sound a bit metaphysical, but there is a difference between something which is 'easy on the eyes' and something inspiring. Beauty inspires and gives beauty to those who are in it's presence. 

    In reality, philosophers have searched for an understanding of beauty in the ground work for understanding Aesthetic. What I've found is that Aesthetic is directly related to Ethics. If this sounds of interest to you, perhaps you have more ahead of you in creating aesthetic within the world around.

    For now, a practical idea would be to catch your thoughts, which many times contain learned information we've been dictated and decide what you'd rather think about. This is not an easy task, it will take repeating back to yourself how you'd rather see the world. We all think negatively of others. Judgement is a type of indulgence or creepy pleasure. It makes one feel a type of power over. But it also depletes the human soul. Actively seek out ways of being and perceiving the world, actively seek beliefs which you feel are attractive and begin to understand what makes them attractive. What makes other beliefs repellant. These are of a great deal more value than external beauty. But that doesn't mean you can't indulge in a new lipgloss or manicure. It simply means to allow your own beauty to spill out of your soul into your external being :) 

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  • Imperfections make us unique. They give gemstones value. Perfect gemstones are not naturally made and not worth much. This is the same with art. There's nothing like a trip to an art gallery to redefine how to perceive and curate beauty. Beauty is an internal structure spilling over into it's exteriors. We desire hidden imperfections. 

    This is the best advice I received: Create a synchronicity and alignment of who you are internally and it will spill out. Begin to seek out beauty in the world around and it will find you. This may sound a bit metaphysical, but there is a difference between something which is 'easy on the eyes' and something inspiring. Beauty inspires and gives beauty to those who are in it's presence. 

    In reality, philosophers have searched for an understanding of beauty in the ground work for understanding Aesthetic. What I've found is that Aesthetic is directly related to Ethics. If this sounds of interest to you, perhaps you have more ahead of you in creating aesthetic within the world around.

    For now, a practical idea would be to catch your thoughts, which many times contain learned information we've been dictated and decide what you'd rather think about. This is not an easy task, it will take repeating back to yourself how you'd rather see the world. We all think negatively of others. Judgement is a type of indulgence or creepy pleasure. It makes one feel a type of power over. But it also depletes the human soul. Actively seek out ways of being and perceiving the world, actively seek beliefs which you feel are attractive and begin to understand what makes them attractive. What makes other beliefs repellant. These are of a great deal more value than external beauty. But that doesn't mean you can't indulge in a new lipgloss or manicure. It simply means to allow your own beauty to spill out of your soul into your external being :) 

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