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my daughter cant cope in mainstream school

NAS17498

Hi all,

I am new to this forum so hello.

My daughter is 5 and has complex needs she is autistic,dyspraxic,with a learning difficulty and speech and language problems ,she has been to 3 schools since she was for as the schools wouldnt except anything was wrong and she was being badly bullied and neglected also upset,bed wetting,aggressive.She is currently in a school where they have agreed to statementing and working with us which was another fight,she has been there since december and is in a class of 30 with a 1to1 who dosnt understand special needs at all.

My problem is whilst waiting for the statement she is not coping and is getting worse,she is extremley hypersensitive and hates crowds,noises,children crying,screaming,lights,no structure,smells,assemblys eating lunch in the dinner hall and finds the whole day frightening,she withdraws into herself and dosnt eat ,talking very little and is in a constant state of panic and anxiety.When she gets home she is aggresive,hyper and very stressed,she never wants to go to school and wets the be at night .I hate her having to go to this school as it is not right for her at all,I have found her  a brilliant school but she needs the statement to get in.Do I really have to put her through this stress I am so worried what this is going to do to her .

sorry long winded,please any help I would be very grateful. 

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  • Hi i am new to this website,just been reading your post,my 12 year old son is in a mainstream school and is finding it very hard to cope,it has been going on since the 1st day he started 18months ago,i have been to no end of meetings and the school is hopeless.he also has aspers and is currently suffering with stress & anxiety.he refuses to go to school,says he has no friends,he's not get dinners as he prefers to shut himself away :(.children annoy him on a day to day basis and all staff can say is "he's making it up".my arguement is "he wouldnt make it up!".they put him in the re-engagement team at his school for a week n a half,as soon as they said he would have to go to his english lesson,he wont go to school again.he just keeps saying she wants to get rid of me thats why.i am not going to make him go back,thinking about home tutoring him,but really don't know where to start,will i be able to get help and someone home tutor him? hope someone can help,many thanks

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  • Hi i am new to this website,just been reading your post,my 12 year old son is in a mainstream school and is finding it very hard to cope,it has been going on since the 1st day he started 18months ago,i have been to no end of meetings and the school is hopeless.he also has aspers and is currently suffering with stress & anxiety.he refuses to go to school,says he has no friends,he's not get dinners as he prefers to shut himself away :(.children annoy him on a day to day basis and all staff can say is "he's making it up".my arguement is "he wouldnt make it up!".they put him in the re-engagement team at his school for a week n a half,as soon as they said he would have to go to his english lesson,he wont go to school again.he just keeps saying she wants to get rid of me thats why.i am not going to make him go back,thinking about home tutoring him,but really don't know where to start,will i be able to get help and someone home tutor him? hope someone can help,many thanks

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