Mainstream or Special?

Hi, not sure where to start really.  I live in Birmingham but actually fall under Solihull council and have a son aged 3 and a half in a mainstream nursery.  He was diagnosed with ASD a few months ago, although we suspected this for a while.  In the middle of the statementing process now, however, I am in a real pickle in wondering which school to send him to.  He has very limited speech.  He will come and ask me for things such as "computer on please" or "wheres drink?" etc but can't answer questions or have a conversation.  He is bright though and I don't believe he really has a learning disability.  He can recognise all the letters of the alphabet phonically and can recognise a handful of words.  He can't really draw or write, however if you ask him to spell his name, he can call out the letters in order and draw something that resembles the correct letters! He has sensory issues with certain noises but doesn't have routine issues.  I've looked at a few schools and although my local special school (Merstone) looks great, I can't help but worry that my son will start picking up unusual behaviours by mimicking whats around him.  Ideally, I think with a fab mainstream school thats supportive and with a good one to one worker, I really believe he will shine.  Sorry for rambling but has anyone else been in this position and what did you do?  Noone seems to be able to recommend a good local mainstream that is supportive with this as noone else has had the experience of it.  HELP!!!

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  • I'm just in the process of moving my son as soon as a space becomes available at a special school. He is 8 and although his MS school tries to support him educationally the problems are that as he is getting older, he is becoming more and more aware of the fact that he is 'different' from other children and that he is not able to read and write like his peers. Emotionally I know the best thing for him to do is move as I can see that MS is having a detrimental effect on his self essteem. I hope this helps anyone struggling with a decision x

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  • I'm just in the process of moving my son as soon as a space becomes available at a special school. He is 8 and although his MS school tries to support him educationally the problems are that as he is getting older, he is becoming more and more aware of the fact that he is 'different' from other children and that he is not able to read and write like his peers. Emotionally I know the best thing for him to do is move as I can see that MS is having a detrimental effect on his self essteem. I hope this helps anyone struggling with a decision x

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