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Child choosing to not comply in school

happylilgirl

Hi

After a number of changes in class which led to a complete crisis where my child locked hinslef in a room at school.  My child refused to accept the changes and refused to participate. It was suggested that his refusal was somehow due to me. As I had advocated on his behavlf and complained about the changes.

The rsposnse I got was he has magaged other changes, however I beg to differ as I got the fall out from these.

I just want to know if this type of behaviour is common in children with autism ? Or is non compliance and no meltdown but grumpy behaviour for days/ weeks after not common? He has slowly managed to deal with some of the changes, but has stated it depends on how they are pitched at him. 

Thanks in advance

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  • I hear everyone of you, thank you for replying.

    Totally agree with copring with changes are due to how it is pitched and who by.

    Hate being told they have to treat the same as in child has to fit in rather than them make acomodations.

    Also when they suggest that child is doing fine when in meetings, which are set up due to them complaining that they cant manage. Argh. Im sure its just them refusing to accept any obligation as surely anyone whos educated cannot really believe they are really doing fine.

    thanks again

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  • I hear everyone of you, thank you for replying.

    Totally agree with copring with changes are due to how it is pitched and who by.

    Hate being told they have to treat the same as in child has to fit in rather than them make acomodations.

    Also when they suggest that child is doing fine when in meetings, which are set up due to them complaining that they cant manage. Argh. Im sure its just them refusing to accept any obligation as surely anyone whos educated cannot really believe they are really doing fine.

    thanks again

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