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Child choosing to not comply in school

happylilgirl

Hi

After a number of changes in class which led to a complete crisis where my child locked hinslef in a room at school.  My child refused to accept the changes and refused to participate. It was suggested that his refusal was somehow due to me. As I had advocated on his behavlf and complained about the changes.

The rsposnse I got was he has magaged other changes, however I beg to differ as I got the fall out from these.

I just want to know if this type of behaviour is common in children with autism ? Or is non compliance and no meltdown but grumpy behaviour for days/ weeks after not common? He has slowly managed to deal with some of the changes, but has stated it depends on how they are pitched at him. 

Thanks in advance

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  • HI,

    Isnt it funny how schools like to blame the parents first!!! and say oh we dont have any of this behaviour or see any of that at school.

    No thats because they are trying to be socially accepted and once home let it out where they know that reguardless of what they say or do you will love them and be there for them. Home is the safe enviroment. (this is called the coke a cola effect)

    when i sought advice about the behaviour (school) side of things i was told that the behaviour is a symptom due to lack of support/overload or something. 

    hopes this helps

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  • HI,

    Isnt it funny how schools like to blame the parents first!!! and say oh we dont have any of this behaviour or see any of that at school.

    No thats because they are trying to be socially accepted and once home let it out where they know that reguardless of what they say or do you will love them and be there for them. Home is the safe enviroment. (this is called the coke a cola effect)

    when i sought advice about the behaviour (school) side of things i was told that the behaviour is a symptom due to lack of support/overload or something. 

    hopes this helps

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