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DJmum

i have an 18year old with Aspergers whose becoming lets say sexually aware im concerned by some of his behaviour and dont know where to turn !!!!

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  • you cant just introduce him to a girl and expect it to work when he can be inappropriate in what he says as in he likes breasts and doesnt understand its not right to ask to see them. My other child wouldnt dream of touching himself infront of others as he knows this isnt the way to behave he understands unspoken language that a Aspergers ot autistic person wouldnt.

    I would like nothing more than him to have a realtionship when he's ready and understands whats ok and whats not. But right now i believe he needs to awareness andd that isnt easy.

    Sadly because its sexual behaviour its a taboo subject too and its difficult for us as the parent carer to openly talk

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  • you cant just introduce him to a girl and expect it to work when he can be inappropriate in what he says as in he likes breasts and doesnt understand its not right to ask to see them. My other child wouldnt dream of touching himself infront of others as he knows this isnt the way to behave he understands unspoken language that a Aspergers ot autistic person wouldnt.

    I would like nothing more than him to have a realtionship when he's ready and understands whats ok and whats not. But right now i believe he needs to awareness andd that isnt easy.

    Sadly because its sexual behaviour its a taboo subject too and its difficult for us as the parent carer to openly talk

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