please what support should my son should be recivin

hi hun, omg the head rang me up on friday i aint to pleased, as shes saying i can drop my son off, im not allowed to stay with him, i can stay in the school, dont these people listen, its taken me 5mths to get him dressed its just been a week since hes been going out, i was told i could stay with him until he settles, the school are saying different to build his confidence up, this is what im worried about turning negative, i cant do it hun , i cant leave him by himself, its the same as my 2 yr old hun, their concered hes hardly speaking, i feel his coping alot from his brother , my 2yr old gives me a lot of eye contact, its very hard i no, i do put my 2yr old right when he screams, and points at the item he wants i will say to him toy cAr, he will say car, the health vistitor tells me to put brendon in another room, and do one to one with my 2yr old, i some how dont think so, i play with them both so it learns brendon, to take turns and share, its very inportent aswell, my oldest son gos to a specal school hes loved it, he couldent speak at all, now hes speaking, he staying on until hes 18, im proud of him hes a lovley boy, he plays alot with the littlens why i get the house work done, its never done becouse the littlen salways empting the toy boxs lol, my other 2 children they go to a normal mainstream school, they get one 2 one, they are looking at putting them in specal school aswell, it really depends on how well they get on this year,

hi hun, omg the head rang me up on friday i aint to pleased, as shes saying i can drop my son off, im not allowed to stay with him, i can stay in the school, dont these people listen, its taken me 5mths to get him dressed its just been a week since hes been going out, i was told i could stay with him until he settles, the school are saying different to build his confidence up, this is what im worried about turning negative, i cant do it hun , i cant leave him by himself, its the same as my 2 yr old hun, their concered hes hardly speaking, i feel his coping alot from his brother , my 2yr old gives me a lot of eye contact, its very hard i no, i do put my 2yr old right when he screams, and points at the item he wants i will say to him toy cAr, he will say car, the health vistitor tells me to put brendon in another room, and do one to one with my 2yr old, i some how dont think so, i play with them both so it learns brendon, to take turns and share, its very inportent aswell, my oldest son gos to a specal school hes loved it, he couldent speak at all, now hes speaking, he staying on until hes 18, im proud of him hes a lovley boy, he plays alot with the littlens why i get the house work done, its never done becouse the littlen salways empting the toy boxs lol, my other 2 children they go to a normal mainstream school, they get one 2 one, they are looking at putting them in specal school aswell, it really depends on how well they get on this year,