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@teardrops: there is zero real evidence that vaccines cause autism! And the outward signs (e.g. a sudden reversal in talking ability) can present themselves at any time. Don't blame the vaccines, and definately don't blame yourself! Oh, and as for 'no autism in the family on either side' - that's not the same as 'no potential for autism in the family on either side' - one gets one's genes from both parents, and it is the unique combination of genes that are expressed in oneself that determine whether one is autistic or not - so, two seperate family trees can carry some of the genes for autism and it's only when those come together in an individual that autism gets expressed.

hi hun yes brendon, i be making phone calls tommorow,ive already googled about this 5 - 1vaccine, and its not good hun, theirs traces of mercury aswell, my babie was still talking until after these vaccinations its nothing to to with genes hun, its abig cover up, no one on my side of the family or my partners side as ever hasd autisum, its something to do with the vaccinations, something friday night was niggling me hun, first thing saturday morning, i checked brendons records in his red book, these vaccines are ment to be from 3 4 5 mths brendon had missed them 16days before his birthday he had the 5 - 1jab, he was still taking, then a month later he had a nother 5 -1 shot, shortly after he stopped talking, showed signs of autism, autisum is ment to show around 17mths, this isent the case hun, read up about these 5 -1 vaccinations hun, please you will see for yourself, xxxxx

hi hun im so sorry ive not been in touch, i cannot belive it ive made some shocking evidence, my son had the whooping cough and other injections just before he turned two, he was still speaking then, when he had these injections he couldent walk he stopped talking after, ive got the dates aswell in his book, and only to find that these injections have toxins in them aswell, my babie was talking yet they say autisum comes out at around 17mths ,

hi hun, im sorry i havent been on, well brendon been going to school now for 4weeks, omg hun, mager meltdowns every day now for 2hrs a time, its not good, hes having meltdowns in the shops, its not good at all, ive brought him another buggy yesterday, its not strong enough for hiw weight, i just dont no what im going to do, it was £155 pounds, people have said they got free buggys i dont no how you apply for them, theirs so much going on in school for him, hes eating really well theis, yet at home is diet is very poor, their potty training him, yet he will not fdo it at home, hes waking up at night, the list gos on and on, im so tierd and drained, ive got callum into nursery after easter for 10 hrs a week, brendon even had a melt down at school, but their trained to deal with it, the teacher tolds me to be firm with him, hes lashing out on me again , hes bitting me, opunching me, and kicking me, for no reason, i just dont no what im doing wrong, tonight i just felt like crying, people were looking in descace, at me, i really felt like blowing my top aswell, its no fun having a melt down in public, xxxxx

hi hun hope  your ok, had a bad night with brendon he was up until after 1 this morning, then come the morning to get him dressed ready for school he refused, and cried, he got dressed for me, i had a letter today off the speech and langrage im so angry when he was attending nursery for 2hrs a week, he should of been reciving speech theropy, they put in the letter they havent seen brendon yet, this was a year ago hun, my son hasent seen a speech and langrage theropist its descusing this was ment to be put in place, im so angry i understand what your on about with the professionals, with brendon, i cannot wear hairspray or perfums, i cannot do the polishing around him hes very sencitive, with washing poweder ive had to change it to fairy, and daz one s that hardly have a smell to them, i still cannot get brendon in the bath, i told the profesional today, they said to buy some more bath toys, my bath is full of them, i cant get any more in  the bath room, my front room is like a toy shop, i get moand at my the professionals, that hes got all the toys in front of him he not going to ask, kids are kids, im so pleased with brendon, every day ive been taken him to the shops, when i come to a road i will put my hand up and say stop, tonight we went out, for the first time brendon told me to stop, i couldent belive it i felt so over the moon with him, that ive done something right, its only taken me 2weeks to achive this x

my sons the same hun its the texture they like, i did that with my son hun with a mainstream nursery, it all went pear shaped, they dident no how to cope with him hour later they would ring me up asking me to collect him, it just went bad to worst, autsum outreach went in once a week to support the nursery with brendons needs, it dident help, now i ve got what i wanted for brendon, in a special school, even though the education have said 15hours a week they want him in full time, im happy but abit worried at the same time, they want him in full time after half tearm is good, i just wish i could get some help with getting him in the bath, hes still refusing, its no joke now, the pro who uselly helps me as gone on holiday for 2 weeks, im getting sick of telling them hes refusing to bath, i would see how your son gets on hun, if you see a difference in him, then i would push for a special school, their isent so many children in a class room and more teachers aswell for support, were in a mainstream nursery theirs 35 children in one class, with 4 teachers, is alot of children really

oh god hun, its really like a roller coaster ride, one min you think your making progress then all of a sudden you drop down, in another area, its never ending, couldent they give the babie some laxiloice, its alot easier to give then trying to stick tablets up her bum, i couldent do that hun, prune juice is good aswell hun and orange juice,

hi hun, hope your ok, the school want brendon in all next week and im so worried, as he refused the other day to get dressed, this is what im so worried about turning in to negative, i feel the school are really rushing things , oh god hun, that sounds like what brendon does aswell he fills his mouth up with food, hes sticking his fingers in his mouth, and being sick, this as been going on for time aswell, i thought he would grow out of it, unless its a senory thing with texture, not sure,

hi hun i hope your all ok, i taken brendon to school and stayed for a hour, i had to go out for 15mins, and he cried when we got their, im so worried hun has they want him in full time after half term, i feel they are so rushing things, its been 2 weeks since brendons been going out , im so worried about the school, ive got to take him in tommorow for a hour again, i have to go out again, its so horrable when they cry for you

hi hun no worries hope your feelin better, me and the kids are all ill, not feeling to good, sleepless nights kids are grumpy, brendon missed school today, he be going in tommorow, ive sorted it out with the school, i can stay in the class then i have to leave for 2mins then go bk in, hope your ok and the littlens, xx

hi hun i hope you get better soon, theirs nothing worst then being ill, looking after littlens, hun i have tried for over a year with the pec cards the hardest part is getting eye contact, my son still isent intrested, ive got no eye contact from him, my son still usees his fingers, hes nearly 4, even though i put a fork and spoon, hes not intrested ive showed him every meal time, but nothing, i no its very hard, its a battle, but one day we will get their, im ringing up the school tommorow hun, im very worried ,i let you no how i get on, me well got a banging headake, the day seems to of been never ending,

its very hard, i no, but the thing is they have to learn to play together and share, my best buy was from ikea, mammut table and chairs, very hard plastic they come in funky colours, their for children, when it s paint time i will put everything on this table so my littlens no, they will come over and sit down, they no its painting on the table only, when they had a 1hour play at the table, i will tell them its tidy up time in 5, then i count down then i say tidy up time, they will help me put the items away, its taken me along time, to do this, if they go from the table with a paint brush, then i will take the paint brush off them tell them its at the table, i had the same problem hun with my littlens over the carpet spittinfg food out, but the table i brought i put all food on their they no now food is just for eating around the table, if they get off their chairs with their food or drink i will remove the food /drink and put it back on the table, you do get their in the end, its worth the wait, hun my oldest son whos adhd use to be like your little boy , breaking things climing, touching things he shouldent be, always on the go, 5oclock in the morning, i dont get alot of support at all, i dont bother with parents, its just a case from getting on with the day, and learning from mistakes, i enjoy every minite i have with my kids their my world, they keep me going,

hi hun, omg the head rang me up on friday i aint to pleased, as shes saying i can drop my son off, im not allowed to stay with him, i can stay in the school, dont these people listen, its taken me 5mths to get him dressed its just been a week since hes been going out, i was told i could stay with him until he settles, the school are saying different to build his confidence up, this is what im worried about turning negative, i cant do it hun , i cant leave him by himself, its the same as my 2 yr old hun, their concered hes hardly speaking, i feel his coping alot from his brother , my 2yr old gives me a lot of eye contact, its very hard i no, i do put my 2yr old right when he screams, and points at the item he wants i will say to him toy cAr, he will say car, the health vistitor tells me to put brendon in another room, and do one to one with my 2yr old, i some how dont think so, i play with them both so it learns brendon, to take turns and share, its very inportent aswell, my oldest son gos to a specal school hes loved it, he couldent speak at all, now hes speaking, he staying on until hes 18, im proud of him hes a lovley boy, he plays alot with the littlens why i get the house work done, its never done becouse the littlen salways empting the toy boxs lol, my other 2 children they go to a normal mainstream school, they get one 2 one, they are looking at putting them in specal school aswell, it really depends on how well they get on this year,

hi hun, i think i will speak to the head, i dont mind sending him in for 3 days just for a hour, so long as i can stay with him, i want to settle him, he was very clingy today he wouldent let go of me, i no its going to take time, but they have to understand this, when i was in the class room, their wasent a lot of intraction going on neither with the teacher s towards the children, this concered me aswell, i have a 13yr old boy whos adhd, speech disorder, i have a 8yr old boy who has global development delays, i have a 7 yr old daughter who got global develment delay then theirs brendon with autisum, i have 2yr old boy, they are concered i think hes just coping brendon, i no hes speech delayed, they have offered him speech and laugrage, this is the thing i was offered that for brendon, hes never recived anything, its very annoying, to keep up with whats been offered, it just seems like hes been forgotten about,

hi hun, they r aware of my sons situration, but this is the teacher thats saying 3 days a week, but really i want to wean him in, i feel that 3 days for 1 hour will be to much, they want him in full time, they dont seem to realise hes got  to build his confidence up again, they dont realise how hard its been for me for 5mths , not goin out the house, i felt a bit out of place to be honest, becouse non of the teachers come over to talk or play with brendon,

i no how you feel its a constant battle all the time, i taken my little man to school for an hour, he got tears in his eyes he was very clingy to me, he stayed , im just abit on edge becouse they want him to say for 3 days next week to be honest i dont think hes ready, ile be staying with him, the teacher said the qricker they can get him in the better they can help him, its only been a week since hes been getting dreesed and going out, i dont want to turn it in a negative have him back to squre one again, i feel three days is really pushing him , just abit confussed to be honest,

hi hun im glad you got support, its a real shame we both dident live closer, ive got the same problem as well, brendom lashes out on my other 4 kids, he just punches them in the face, he will do this for ages, i found a solution, thats to pull a sad face, i think they are looking for a reaction, when they get one they stop, i found this works well, same with the playing, some days brendon will let his siblins play, but its om his terms,  some days he dosent, he has got alot better at playing with his siblins, just get your older son, to play on the floor, with some cars, or painting, you be suprised the twins will go and see what hes doing, even if they just whatch your son, its progress, they might even join in, it really does take a lot of time, i really no how you feel as ive been through it and still going through it, im really looking forward for tommorow, as they will have him full time ive just got to get him use to it, its only been a week since hes been getting dressed, got to take it slowly, but the bathing side im having a right game, he refuses to still have a bath it was last monday since he had one he wouldent let me wash his hair, its very frustrating, they have told me not to worry, its ok for them to say that, what about hygine, he use to have a bath every day, everything is on his terms,

hi hun, god it must be so hard with twins, do you get any support from your partner, i live in stafford, its a shame, i dont get to speak to any one really, i really no how you feel when they achive the littlest thing, we get so upset, but for other perants that take things for granted everyday, its a milestone for parents like us, ive had another brillient day with my son, this morning, he got dressed with out even crying at all, i had tears in my eyes, my son gos for 1hr at his special school tommorow, im going with him, i cant wait im looking fowrard to it, i let you no how i get on tommorow,

hi hun, i had another great morning, my son cried for 1min and thats it, im taking him out tommorow, you say your son has a lot of melt downs in public, is he in a pushchair, the reason i ask i put my son in a pushchair, i brought a sun shade, its black, it fits over the hood when its on it covers half the pushchair, when i use mine my son cannot see all the people walking past him, he isent so bothered, i think it relaxes him, ive never had a problem ,

im over the moon as i dont go out any were, with my son not getting dressed ive been house bound, im taking him out tommorow, just taking it slow with him, im lucky in that way hes never had a melt down as such while we been out, its always been in the house, its no fun at all when it lasts upto 2 hrs, of being punched and kicked, he hasent been to bad for the past couple of times they lasted for just under 1 hr, its no fun at all has ive got a 2yr old son, who likes the word no, my other son lashes out on him, becouse he keeps on saying no to him, they are trying to get my little man into nursery, has hes coping my other little man,