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whats real /unreal to the world

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please i need some advice, does my 4 year old son now whats real and whats un real , in this world, has i was told that cartoons are real to them ,in their world, this is frighting, i dont even think he nows from day to day is, i was told autistic children like routine, i cannot get my son into one, dont no were to start, theirs no communication, ive tryed pec cards, i was told i need to get into my sons world, how do i do this, im still new to all this as my son was diagnoised last year, its still a big shock very hard to get my head around, i have read books , theirs so much to take in,

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  • When I went through my teenager years, I think I might have felt a little pushed out, but that was just me being a teenager. Honestly, I have helped my parents take care of my brother. I gave up doing things after school so I could babysit while they worked. During the summers I stayed home till 4 maybe 5 before I did anything because my brother couldnt be home alone. I never felt like my parents didnt love me or like they gave my brother more attention. I know that he needed it more than me. I am the person I am today because of him. I had to grow up fast and I'm glad I did because a lot of people my age still haven't figured out what there purpose in life is. My mother and I have an amazing relationship and my dad and I become closer everyday. So, no I don't feel like my parents didnt give me enough attention. I think they did wonderfully as parents by making me feel loved and included. Even when my brother needed more attention they found ways of including me in everything. 

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  • When I went through my teenager years, I think I might have felt a little pushed out, but that was just me being a teenager. Honestly, I have helped my parents take care of my brother. I gave up doing things after school so I could babysit while they worked. During the summers I stayed home till 4 maybe 5 before I did anything because my brother couldnt be home alone. I never felt like my parents didnt love me or like they gave my brother more attention. I know that he needed it more than me. I am the person I am today because of him. I had to grow up fast and I'm glad I did because a lot of people my age still haven't figured out what there purpose in life is. My mother and I have an amazing relationship and my dad and I become closer everyday. So, no I don't feel like my parents didnt give me enough attention. I think they did wonderfully as parents by making me feel loved and included. Even when my brother needed more attention they found ways of including me in everything. 

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