My child is statemented (25 hrs). As well as Autism and ADHD my child has a bowel condition. We have a meeting with the school next Monday re my child's incontinence issues. As far as I am aware my child is taken to the toilet when they ask but their 1:1 waits outside the door and my child is not checked or helped with clean up. My child is unable to clean themself successfully. My child always comes home soiled - I provide the school with pads, wipes, bags etc but the school do not use them. I have been phoned a few times to come and sort my child out which is very difficult when I am working. They expect my child to be able to sort themself out but because of behavioral difficulties (Autism/ADHD) this is not the case.
Any advice?
Thanks,
Caroline