I'm so tired of it

Hi everyone

I am so fed up of people telling me I make our SPD/ASD daughter worse because of my behaviour towards her. I'm tired of being told she is fine at school so it must be something I am doing at home. I'm also fed up of coming in from work and hubby saying she has been fine till you got home. I'm always being told that this is her and I can't fix her, I know that but I can't help wanting to help her when something upsets her. Hubby says I have to tell her if things change and she just has to deal with so there's no point in me pandering to her. Sorry about the moan but I needed to let it out xx

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  • hows the school holidays going? I also wanted to ask you do you or have you ever went to any parenting meetings?  I am trying to find a place for parenting meetings but so far none in my area. It just I thought it might be helpful to meet other parents, sometimes they have the best ideas and informatio. We also, when my daughter was attending school given choice of coming in later, leaving sooner, sitting in the learning support, but she didn't want to stand out as different. I just sometimes feel my daughter is happy on her own in her room, books, films, Internet. But I find it lonely especially siince my son is the same. I feels sometimes I'm the outsider. I have arranged a few days out over the holidays let's hope this weather gets better. Does your daughter like going out in the holidays, or does she also like to stay at home?   Hope you are both well.

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  • hows the school holidays going? I also wanted to ask you do you or have you ever went to any parenting meetings?  I am trying to find a place for parenting meetings but so far none in my area. It just I thought it might be helpful to meet other parents, sometimes they have the best ideas and informatio. We also, when my daughter was attending school given choice of coming in later, leaving sooner, sitting in the learning support, but she didn't want to stand out as different. I just sometimes feel my daughter is happy on her own in her room, books, films, Internet. But I find it lonely especially siince my son is the same. I feels sometimes I'm the outsider. I have arranged a few days out over the holidays let's hope this weather gets better. Does your daughter like going out in the holidays, or does she also like to stay at home?   Hope you are both well.

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