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I'm so tired of it

jrandall10

Hi everyone

I am so fed up of people telling me I make our SPD/ASD daughter worse because of my behaviour towards her. I'm tired of being told she is fine at school so it must be something I am doing at home. I'm also fed up of coming in from work and hubby saying she has been fine till you got home. I'm always being told that this is her and I can't fix her, I know that but I can't help wanting to help her when something upsets her. Hubby says I have to tell her if things change and she just has to deal with so there's no point in me pandering to her. Sorry about the moan but I needed to let it out xx

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  • My daughter was also offered things like come in 10 minutes earlier leave earlier but, she didn't like that idea because she likes routine and sameness., and didn't like standing out and being questioned why see came in late etc: she has one really good friend from school who sees her regularly and understands her really well, so I grateful for that.Do you go to any parent meetings, thats what I've been told to find, any local parent meeting to be able to meet parents in the same situation. So far I haven't found anywhere local, a few out of my area. Do you manage to get out and about with your daughter over the holidays? What will happen after your daughters final year at school? I just know there's not much advice out there.  

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  • My daughter was also offered things like come in 10 minutes earlier leave earlier but, she didn't like that idea because she likes routine and sameness., and didn't like standing out and being questioned why see came in late etc: she has one really good friend from school who sees her regularly and understands her really well, so I grateful for that.Do you go to any parent meetings, thats what I've been told to find, any local parent meeting to be able to meet parents in the same situation. So far I haven't found anywhere local, a few out of my area. Do you manage to get out and about with your daughter over the holidays? What will happen after your daughters final year at school? I just know there's not much advice out there.  

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