I'm so tired of it

Hi everyone

I am so fed up of people telling me I make our SPD/ASD daughter worse because of my behaviour towards her. I'm tired of being told she is fine at school so it must be something I am doing at home. I'm also fed up of coming in from work and hubby saying she has been fine till you got home. I'm always being told that this is her and I can't fix her, I know that but I can't help wanting to help her when something upsets her. Hubby says I have to tell her if things change and she just has to deal with so there's no point in me pandering to her. Sorry about the moan but I needed to let it out xx

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  • hi Fedupmum

    Thank you for your kind reply.    My daughter's school agreed to let her go in ten minutes later than the other children, so she was still in time for lessons but avoided the early morning noise and crowds at the start of the day.  It helped a bit but she still got stressed and tired by the rest of the day there. It's the school holidays now so she will be happy at home, and hopefully there will be less rages, but I dread when school starts again in September, especially as it will be her final year.  You are doing well to be home schooling your daughter, it can't be easy.  I'm here if you want to chat too.  

    take care :)

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  • hi Fedupmum

    Thank you for your kind reply.    My daughter's school agreed to let her go in ten minutes later than the other children, so she was still in time for lessons but avoided the early morning noise and crowds at the start of the day.  It helped a bit but she still got stressed and tired by the rest of the day there. It's the school holidays now so she will be happy at home, and hopefully there will be less rages, but I dread when school starts again in September, especially as it will be her final year.  You are doing well to be home schooling your daughter, it can't be easy.  I'm here if you want to chat too.  

    take care :)

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