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I'm so tired of it

jrandall10

Hi everyone

I am so fed up of people telling me I make our SPD/ASD daughter worse because of my behaviour towards her. I'm tired of being told she is fine at school so it must be something I am doing at home. I'm also fed up of coming in from work and hubby saying she has been fine till you got home. I'm always being told that this is her and I can't fix her, I know that but I can't help wanting to help her when something upsets her. Hubby says I have to tell her if things change and she just has to deal with so there's no point in me pandering to her. Sorry about the moan but I needed to let it out xx

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  • Hi jenny robin, thanks for your reply it's just nice to know we are not alone, I have been homeschooling my daughter for the last 5 weeks, and the pressure is off her now, especially for noise in the school, changing of lessons etc it made her anxiety worse. She is more settled at home, but it's defiantly not easy. I pushed for a ados test which I get results in 2 weeks time. Sorry to hear of your loss, it even harder being a single mam a well. (I am). My daughter has been on the Internet and looked at other girls on the spectrum and also read about  aspergers which I think helps, I know from experience that they sometimes hard for them to express themselves, so sometimes in comes out in anger. Any time you wish to chat or just sound off feel free to message me. 

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  • Hi jenny robin, thanks for your reply it's just nice to know we are not alone, I have been homeschooling my daughter for the last 5 weeks, and the pressure is off her now, especially for noise in the school, changing of lessons etc it made her anxiety worse. She is more settled at home, but it's defiantly not easy. I pushed for a ados test which I get results in 2 weeks time. Sorry to hear of your loss, it even harder being a single mam a well. (I am). My daughter has been on the Internet and looked at other girls on the spectrum and also read about  aspergers which I think helps, I know from experience that they sometimes hard for them to express themselves, so sometimes in comes out in anger. Any time you wish to chat or just sound off feel free to message me. 

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