I'm so tired of it

Hi everyone

I am so fed up of people telling me I make our SPD/ASD daughter worse because of my behaviour towards her. I'm tired of being told she is fine at school so it must be something I am doing at home. I'm also fed up of coming in from work and hubby saying she has been fine till you got home. I'm always being told that this is her and I can't fix her, I know that but I can't help wanting to help her when something upsets her. Hubby says I have to tell her if things change and she just has to deal with so there's no point in me pandering to her. Sorry about the moan but I needed to let it out xx

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  • hi everyone, I have never done anything like this before, just feel so alone, I have a son diagnosed with aspergers at aged 12. He will be 20 years old soon and has been at home 24/7 for the last 6years. Help came to late for my son. Now for the last 16months I have been attending camhs with my daughter aged nearly15 (possible aspergers) which I know she has. I have been through a rough time diagnosis etc, outbursts meltdowns. But after years especially having my son at home 24/7 I am finally learning how to cope with the world of aspergers. It's been a long at times very isolated road. It has definitely had a impact on my health. I would like to talk to anyone who knows how I feel. Thanks

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  • hi everyone, I have never done anything like this before, just feel so alone, I have a son diagnosed with aspergers at aged 12. He will be 20 years old soon and has been at home 24/7 for the last 6years. Help came to late for my son. Now for the last 16months I have been attending camhs with my daughter aged nearly15 (possible aspergers) which I know she has. I have been through a rough time diagnosis etc, outbursts meltdowns. But after years especially having my son at home 24/7 I am finally learning how to cope with the world of aspergers. It's been a long at times very isolated road. It has definitely had a impact on my health. I would like to talk to anyone who knows how I feel. Thanks

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