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I'm so tired of it

jrandall10

Hi everyone

I am so fed up of people telling me I make our SPD/ASD daughter worse because of my behaviour towards her. I'm tired of being told she is fine at school so it must be something I am doing at home. I'm also fed up of coming in from work and hubby saying she has been fine till you got home. I'm always being told that this is her and I can't fix her, I know that but I can't help wanting to help her when something upsets her. Hubby says I have to tell her if things change and she just has to deal with so there's no point in me pandering to her. Sorry about the moan but I needed to let it out xx

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  • I  am finding it hard but I'm trying to remember the good times when the bad ones get bad. I'm not sure about my hubby being on the spectrum, he is a stay at home parent because he had a heart attack five years ago and I have a very good job that I love. We don't get help from any nhs professionals, if I go to the go he refers us back to the original paedatrician who diagnosed our daughter. The paedatrician will then make a appointment to talk about stuff and tell me I'm better at things then I think. She will then refer us back to the OT to help with SPD queries but then the current queries and then they discharge our daughter without even seeing her. Cahms currently have us on a anxiety course waiting list which we hopefully will go on in September. I try really hard to stick to saying no and making sure she understands not to be naughty but she doesn't remember what it is she has done wrong. We get alot of attitude from her when she is stressed and she gets very emotional too. I'm just not sure what to do with her sometimes and have constant questions xx

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  • I  am finding it hard but I'm trying to remember the good times when the bad ones get bad. I'm not sure about my hubby being on the spectrum, he is a stay at home parent because he had a heart attack five years ago and I have a very good job that I love. We don't get help from any nhs professionals, if I go to the go he refers us back to the original paedatrician who diagnosed our daughter. The paedatrician will then make a appointment to talk about stuff and tell me I'm better at things then I think. She will then refer us back to the OT to help with SPD queries but then the current queries and then they discharge our daughter without even seeing her. Cahms currently have us on a anxiety course waiting list which we hopefully will go on in September. I try really hard to stick to saying no and making sure she understands not to be naughty but she doesn't remember what it is she has done wrong. We get alot of attitude from her when she is stressed and she gets very emotional too. I'm just not sure what to do with her sometimes and have constant questions xx

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