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I'm so tired of it

jrandall10

Hi everyone

I am so fed up of people telling me I make our SPD/ASD daughter worse because of my behaviour towards her. I'm tired of being told she is fine at school so it must be something I am doing at home. I'm also fed up of coming in from work and hubby saying she has been fine till you got home. I'm always being told that this is her and I can't fix her, I know that but I can't help wanting to help her when something upsets her. Hubby says I have to tell her if things change and she just has to deal with so there's no point in me pandering to her. Sorry about the moan but I needed to let it out xx

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  • Thank you for your reply. I've been told in the past that it's because the child feels most comfortable with us and that's why they react the way they do. I just don't know what to do. I try to treat her as a normal child so she has a good child up but it's hard when she is stressing over playing. My hubby says I say things and it makes her react differently, he says I should just get on with it n I do try but between working and our daughter being so demanding with me doing more for her, I'm worn out and feeling rubbish xx 

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  • Thank you for your reply. I've been told in the past that it's because the child feels most comfortable with us and that's why they react the way they do. I just don't know what to do. I try to treat her as a normal child so she has a good child up but it's hard when she is stressing over playing. My hubby says I say things and it makes her react differently, he says I should just get on with it n I do try but between working and our daughter being so demanding with me doing more for her, I'm worn out and feeling rubbish xx 

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