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I think it is good to try and keep it positive and try and work with the school rather than battling against them. Easier said than done maybe?

A school of that size should have proper facilities for ASD children as they are likely to have a few others unless there is another school that with special facilities in the vicinity.

If you husband has as much ASD as your son then he will likely be resistant to being told that. I never appreciated being told that I had problems, I always thought it was someone else but then it turned out that I was the one that got the diagnosis! Obstinacy is part of the condition.

Bullying is a common problem and has been much discussed on the forum. your son needs to learn some strategies to reduce this and the school need to deal with it from their side too by supporting your son and dealing with the bullies. It has to be dealt with from both sides as your son's behaviour and reactions will encourage them and their stupidity and lack of insight will latch on to your son's differences. It takes two to create the bullying situation. It is not your son's responsibility to fix it though, that responsibility lies firmly with the school while he is in their care.

I think it is good to try and keep it positive and try and work with the school rather than battling against them. Easier said than done maybe?

A school of that size should have proper facilities for ASD children as they are likely to have a few others unless there is another school that with special facilities in the vicinity.

If you husband has as much ASD as your son then he will likely be resistant to being told that. I never appreciated being told that I had problems, I always thought it was someone else but then it turned out that I was the one that got the diagnosis! Obstinacy is part of the condition.

Bullying is a common problem and has been much discussed on the forum. your son needs to learn some strategies to reduce this and the school need to deal with it from their side too by supporting your son and dealing with the bullies. It has to be dealt with from both sides as your son's behaviour and reactions will encourage them and their stupidity and lack of insight will latch on to your son's differences. It takes two to create the bullying situation. It is not your son's responsibility to fix it though, that responsibility lies firmly with the school while he is in their care.