Help. Need Advice please.

Hi


I'm mailing on behalf of my son, who is a first year undergraduate student at University. He has a diagnosis of Aspergers Syndrome, dyslexia and dyspraxia and receives DLA and DSA. He is aware of this mail.

The academic support from the University itself has been very good - better than experiences with schools had led us to expect. He has a 2 support workers, a named contact in student wellbeing, support software (recording equipment for lectures etc) and his College (the Business School) has been generally supportive. He is enjoying his studies and even regularly attends several student societies.

The only serious problem he has is with his accommodation, provided by private student accommodation suppliers who provide a large accommodation complex next door to the Business School. They placed him a student flat with 5 other students and facing towards the Central Courtyard.

They were informed at least twice in writing and at least twice during phone calls about my son’s condition before he signed their contract. They have failed to make any adjustments to allow him to fully access the services provided - even ignoring his stated preferences for a smaller flat (max. 3 other students) and a room facing away from the central courtyard (as he is very sensitive to ambient noise). We have subsequently found out that he is not the first Aspergers student to have problems at the current accommodation. They haven't anticipated or implemented any adjustments to help students with my son’s disabilities.

For example, even though there were locks fitted to the 6 kitchen cupboards they didn't issue keys and when the other students "took his cupboard, fridge and freezer space" his condition meant that he wouldn't 'stand up for himself' and ended up trying to store his kitchen equipment and food in half the cupboard under the sink and with no space in the fridge/freezer (except the ice cube tray). When his flatmates told him to 'be quiet' (we overheard one of them knocking on his door telling him to be quiet when he was simply making a phone call to us at about 10pm) he started whispering in his room at all times.

These along with other similar incidents have led to tension with his flatmates resulting in him refusing to use the kitchen, flush his toilet or interact with the others in his flat. There is now no chance of re-integrating him into his current accommodation.

His support worker has approached his current accommodation to see if there is a possibility of moving within the accommodation but they have said there is not. The University Accommodation office has found him a studio flat that he could move to but it is with a different accommodation provider. He has been told that his current accommodation provider will hold him to his contract and that he can only move if he re-lets his current accommodation otherwise he will be liable for rent on both rooms.

Does he have grounds to cancel/leave his contract with his current accommodation provider and how would he need to go about it?

Without moving we are sure he will give up his course and leave the University. He intends to hand back his keys on 18th December (when the current term ends). He won't return to the flat after that (and there seems to be very little we can do to change his mind).

If he has his alternative accommodation in place by or near the start of term in January, he will go back (we can help him commute from home in the short term only - we live in a rural location approx. 35 miles from the University with very poor public transport links). This gives us a potential timeframe to the end of January to sort the accommodation. If there's a realistic chance of getting the contract cancelled we would advise him to default on the January payment of his current accommodation provider contract and take the studio flat.

Could you please advise us/him on what we should do?

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  • Another issue here is if it is a new university, especially one of those which originated as a Christian foundation. I raise this as they are often places that make a lot of use of private sector flats, having only recently increased student numbers, and needing purpose built accommodation faster.

    I'm not casting aspersions on Christian foundations per se, but some of these institutions put the overall wellbeing before Christian duty - that is, are more likely to try to brush under the carpet any potential scandal, than act in a Christian manner towards the injured party. So you might find they haven't set up proper harrassment policies, and aren't helpful in resolving the issue.

    Some of the new universities are very switched on and progressive. Some unfortunately still linger in the Dark Ages, having been strict teacher training colleges, with no mixing of the sexes, and supposedly a hard line on bad behaviour, until within the last decade.

    However university status and rapid expansion, while trying to symbolise a modern university, doesn't necessarily pull these institutions into the 21st century, and some are now struggling, as they don't have the infrastructure to address student issues on their present scale.

    I raise this because as I read it, the university has been invvolved either as student services or accommodation office in finding the other flat, but ought immediately to have addressed the harassment. A Russell group university probably would have followed this up, but the lack of response might indicate a fledgling university still run on Christian principles - this doesn't work with the numbers, diversity and complexity of universities.

    I know that's a peregrination on my part, but it is a valid one.

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  • Another issue here is if it is a new university, especially one of those which originated as a Christian foundation. I raise this as they are often places that make a lot of use of private sector flats, having only recently increased student numbers, and needing purpose built accommodation faster.

    I'm not casting aspersions on Christian foundations per se, but some of these institutions put the overall wellbeing before Christian duty - that is, are more likely to try to brush under the carpet any potential scandal, than act in a Christian manner towards the injured party. So you might find they haven't set up proper harrassment policies, and aren't helpful in resolving the issue.

    Some of the new universities are very switched on and progressive. Some unfortunately still linger in the Dark Ages, having been strict teacher training colleges, with no mixing of the sexes, and supposedly a hard line on bad behaviour, until within the last decade.

    However university status and rapid expansion, while trying to symbolise a modern university, doesn't necessarily pull these institutions into the 21st century, and some are now struggling, as they don't have the infrastructure to address student issues on their present scale.

    I raise this because as I read it, the university has been invvolved either as student services or accommodation office in finding the other flat, but ought immediately to have addressed the harassment. A Russell group university probably would have followed this up, but the lack of response might indicate a fledgling university still run on Christian principles - this doesn't work with the numbers, diversity and complexity of universities.

    I know that's a peregrination on my part, but it is a valid one.

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