Sleep Settling Issue - Now I am desperate. What else can I try?

Hi,

I know there is another thread on sleep issues at the moment, but didn't want to hijack the thread where someone else is asking for advice. I am however seriously desperate for advice on anything else I can try to help my son sleep.

My son is now 2yrs11 months and it takes him up to 3 hours to settle to sleep now. He is OBVIOUSLY tired, rubbing his eyes, yawning, etc., but seems unable to settle/switch off. He is suffering from this - he gets upset and frustrated and the days it takes him longest to settle, the next days are the worst in terms of behaviours and sensory issues. We have tried everything I can think of in terms of changes to the room/lighting/bedding/temperature/bedtime routine (obviously all done carefully and gradually to avoid confusion or distress)... I have attended seminars on sleep problems and found I have tried all the 'usual' stuff. The only thing we haven't tried in Melatonin and I want to be happy that a) we have tried all reasonable other options before we consider the medication, and b) that I have researched the supplements properly.

I have 2 questions.

1) What else can we try to help him - as it is causing him distress to struggle to sleep so much when he is tired I can't just 'leave it' as it is.

2) What reliable sources can I look at to research the use of Melatonin in young children? I don't want to 'medicate' my son if I can avoid it, but I also think we need to consider the benefits versus any downsides. I don't want to read any old quack's view, or any knee-jerk reactions, but rather a measured scientific/medical view.

I would be grateful for any views.

PoP

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  • I also just wanted.to.say I.have also had success with the above strategy from thesqrl for my eldest son who has aspergers. He doesn't have delays or.behavioural problems as such so breathing in.and out big deep breaths helped and kept him calm.and still we used this stragey for about 4 years every night. Now 8 gets him self to.sleep x But my previous post on using the melatonin is for my youngest. 

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  • I also just wanted.to.say I.have also had success with the above strategy from thesqrl for my eldest son who has aspergers. He doesn't have delays or.behavioural problems as such so breathing in.and out big deep breaths helped and kept him calm.and still we used this stragey for about 4 years every night. Now 8 gets him self to.sleep x But my previous post on using the melatonin is for my youngest. 

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