Sleep Settling Issue - Now I am desperate. What else can I try?

Hi,

I know there is another thread on sleep issues at the moment, but didn't want to hijack the thread where someone else is asking for advice. I am however seriously desperate for advice on anything else I can try to help my son sleep.

My son is now 2yrs11 months and it takes him up to 3 hours to settle to sleep now. He is OBVIOUSLY tired, rubbing his eyes, yawning, etc., but seems unable to settle/switch off. He is suffering from this - he gets upset and frustrated and the days it takes him longest to settle, the next days are the worst in terms of behaviours and sensory issues. We have tried everything I can think of in terms of changes to the room/lighting/bedding/temperature/bedtime routine (obviously all done carefully and gradually to avoid confusion or distress)... I have attended seminars on sleep problems and found I have tried all the 'usual' stuff. The only thing we haven't tried in Melatonin and I want to be happy that a) we have tried all reasonable other options before we consider the medication, and b) that I have researched the supplements properly.

I have 2 questions.

1) What else can we try to help him - as it is causing him distress to struggle to sleep so much when he is tired I can't just 'leave it' as it is.

2) What reliable sources can I look at to research the use of Melatonin in young children? I don't want to 'medicate' my son if I can avoid it, but I also think we need to consider the benefits versus any downsides. I don't want to read any old quack's view, or any knee-jerk reactions, but rather a measured scientific/medical view.

I would be grateful for any views.

PoP

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  • Former Member
    Former Member

    PieceofPie said:

    Yes we tell stories and I sing.

    This sounds rather entertaining and fun! Bedtime is when the activity and fun has to be reduced and replaced with quiet inactivity. Perhaps you could drop the singing and just tell quiet stories. Otherwise I agree with Marjorie, just make it as quiet and boring as you can without removing your reassuring presence too quickly.

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  • Former Member
    Former Member

    PieceofPie said:

    Yes we tell stories and I sing.

    This sounds rather entertaining and fun! Bedtime is when the activity and fun has to be reduced and replaced with quiet inactivity. Perhaps you could drop the singing and just tell quiet stories. Otherwise I agree with Marjorie, just make it as quiet and boring as you can without removing your reassuring presence too quickly.

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