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Obsession with Gaming and Computers - 9 year old

KathS

Hello all

We have a 9 year old boy, funny and bright, however hes becoming more and more reluctant to do anything other than go on his computer / intenet / play station etc. We have tried to limit its use, however, he simply isnt interested in anything else for longer than say half hour and he's an only child so has no siblings to play with.

My worry is that is he will become withdrawn from normaility and his ability to communicate and interact with others will lessen.

He's up at 7am and on a weekend would quite happily sit in front of a screen till bed at 7pm.

I know that this also is not good for his eyes and as he wears headphones, is bad for his ears. My partner (who is his bilogical dad, I am not his birth mum), is frustrated too, and says 'what am I meant to do with him?' when I state that we have to get him off the computer. I dont know what the answer is as he doesnt want to join school clubs (eg football or rugby or cubs), he just wants to play on his computer.

Obviously there is a lot of fuss and tantrums when he do make him come away.

This is just one 'challenge' , he's not doing so well at his mainstream school, his learning falling behind and his teachers telling us they dont know what to do with him, although he has SEN funding. But thats another problem for another post.

Any ideas please?

Thanks

Kathryn

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  • Thank you all again....yes we have both a dog and cat. He is fond of both but especially fond of his cat, and feeds her each morning (before he goes on his PC). In summer he would bike up and down the street occasionally. I think the issue is also that he's genuinley bored as we dont live near other kids, so the answer quite often is just to go on his PC. He likes swimming and we take him when we can and he is on the list for further lessons....he will occasionally have a child from school over however, things often get confused or misunderstood between him and his friend and often will end up in tears. I wonder if he meets an autistic child he might have more of a chance of striking up a friendship....?

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  • Thank you all again....yes we have both a dog and cat. He is fond of both but especially fond of his cat, and feeds her each morning (before he goes on his PC). In summer he would bike up and down the street occasionally. I think the issue is also that he's genuinley bored as we dont live near other kids, so the answer quite often is just to go on his PC. He likes swimming and we take him when we can and he is on the list for further lessons....he will occasionally have a child from school over however, things often get confused or misunderstood between him and his friend and often will end up in tears. I wonder if he meets an autistic child he might have more of a chance of striking up a friendship....?

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