Hi, My daughter is almost 3 and has just been diagnosed. Health professionals seem reluctant to give any indication as to what her future potential might be. Please could anyone share what their child was like as a toddler and how they have changed.
Hi, My daughter is almost 3 and has just been diagnosed. Health professionals seem reluctant to give any indication as to what her future potential might be. Please could anyone share what their child was like as a toddler and how they have changed.
Health professionals cannot tell you one way or another how your child will be in 5, 10 or 20 years time as doing so could give you false beliefs which may affect how you parent your child.
The journey your child faces depends on many factors which are unique to her. Much will depend on how she responds to her environment, the interventions available to her and how you as a family deal with the challenges ahead. Strategies that work for one child may not work for her, so her path will depend on so many things.
I am interested in knowing why you asked the question? I have met many people with younger children than my own and they see how well mine are doing and it gives them hope, and it worries me that they may judge their child based on what they see in others. So for example I am careful not to tell them the difficulties my children face because it may upset them and they resign themselves to believing that their child will be the same, which may not be the case.
My advice is not to dwell too much on the tomorrow and enjoy today. Enjoy the uniqueness of your child, spend some time in their world. I love seeing things from my son's perspective and their sense of humour and non judgemental way of looking at the world makes me feel blessed to be their mum.
Try not to worry.
Hi - my son didn't speak until he was 5. He said a 6 word phrase at school, altho his pronounciation was poor. Speech therapy sorted that out over a period of time. He understood single words + short phrases 2-3 yrs before he spoke. He is diagnosed as autistic. He has never been classified as having aspergers. He is reliant on a number of key words, phrases + sentences to communicate. He uses these appropriately. He listens quite a lot to what others are saying, sometimes I only realise a bit later that he was really concentrating. He takes 0.5mg of risperidone daily. This helps him by enabling him to concentrate better + also prevents him from getting extremely upset at times. He doesn't hold conversations with people + misses many social cues. He knows loads of people, goes to a wide variety of places with support, uses his pc daily. I think he's doing ok. He has v g support + his living environment is also suitable for him. I'll fight tooth + nail if I have to, to keep all that for him because it's key to his quality of life + we worked so very hard to get where we are today 
Hi - my son always had a sense of humour + that's still very much in place now as an adult. Obviously getting a good education etc helps enormously in the development of any child so it's important yours goes to a suitable school. He also showed a practical side from an early age. He isn't as physically active as he used to be, however! He's kept a number of interests he had as a child, but things change + he needs to find other interests when he's exhausted these, Having a number of strengths + interests should help you + his teachers to help him to develop