Quitting extra curricular clubs

Hi everyone, really new here. 

I was just wondering if anyone had any advice or experience of a pre-teen suddenly wanting to quit all their extra curricular clubs? My son (11) has ASD, loves, trains, fixing things, reading and gaming.

He has recently quit one club due to no longer enjoying it and some bullying which I totally understand. Now he wants to quit Taekwondo, which has been a great confidence booster to him as a result of bullying and he's been doing really well. He doesn't have any firm friends but seems to get on ok and his teacher is excellent and really supportive.

I'm finding it hard to strike a balance of managing his overwhelm, listening to his needs but also trying to make sure he doesn't quit everything at the drop of a hat. He also is resistant to do any exercise so I'm keen for him to keep up with Taekwondo and swimming, his only clubs.

Has anyone else had this balancing act? I've asked him about alternative clubs/exercise but he's not at all interested. 

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  • Yes he has changed school, just over a year ago and he's made 'friends' but prefers his own company and reading. I think he just enjoys the solace and being safe after the horrible experience at his previous school. And you're dead right he's exactly like a cat! His best friend still goes to his old school. They became friends in y1 and he's never really bonded with anyone else.

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