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When One Transition Feels Like a Thousand

Loz

I’m reaching out to other ND parents / carers because I’m processing a lot right now.

Since my child (they are AuDHD) started high school, I’ve noticed a significant regression in their coping and confidence. They’ve always struggled with transitions, so part of me expected this, but seeing it play out feels different. I’m now wondering if this is “normal” (whatever that means!) or if I just hadn’t fully noticed until the demands changed? 

Something else I’m curious about - has anyone else experienced their own ND flaring up when their child starts struggling? My ADHD feels louder than ever lately. I’m juggling school communication, routines, emotional support, and honestly, it’s like both our brains are overwhelmed. 

If you’ve been through a similar stage, did things improve once support was in place? Did you notice a turning point, or anything that helped soften the transition?

Thank you in advance,

Loz Cat 

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  • Good morning,

    So I’m a little far behind you (my AuDHD child is only 7), but she had a tough transition from kindergarten (which is mostly play-based learning) to 1st grade (which is mostly desk work). We actually had to switch between a few schools before we found her the right fit for a classroom. So moving around actually helped in our case, though I wouldn’t necessarily recommend that since that adds even more transitions and routine changes to your child’s life.

    Yeah, I have had my AuDHD flare up when my child struggles. The biggest thing I’m working through right now is trying to get over the idea of “Well I had Autism as a child and I got through X and Y.” Just because I managed it with less struggle doesn’t mean my child should be able to as well.

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  • Good morning,

    So I’m a little far behind you (my AuDHD child is only 7), but she had a tough transition from kindergarten (which is mostly play-based learning) to 1st grade (which is mostly desk work). We actually had to switch between a few schools before we found her the right fit for a classroom. So moving around actually helped in our case, though I wouldn’t necessarily recommend that since that adds even more transitions and routine changes to your child’s life.

    Yeah, I have had my AuDHD flare up when my child struggles. The biggest thing I’m working through right now is trying to get over the idea of “Well I had Autism as a child and I got through X and Y.” Just because I managed it with less struggle doesn’t mean my child should be able to as well.

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