Explaining autism scientifically to 10 Yr old

TMom10 said:

It would be really helpful to have a way to explain autism to him from a scientific angle so thst he could see the reason he struggles with some seemingly straightforward things isn't down to stupidity

One approach could be to explain that a defining part of autism is that the autistic brain does not go through a key change that neurotypical children go through.

i'll explain it in the way my psychotherapist explained it to me.

A childs brain has all its senses supplying information to the brain like an open tap - lots of input to help the child be aware of their environment and learn from it.

Somewhere around the age of 5 (there is a lot of variability in this), neurotypical peoples brains start to filter the senses so that less information gets through and the brain can focus on the fewer inputs it gets.

Neurodiverse brains don't develop this filter and we continue being flooded with the senses - everyone a bit different to any other neurodivergent person.

Neurotypicals now have less load on their brains so they start being able to learn social skills and how to fit in. The poor neurodivergents are learning more and more and always being flooded by their sensory inputs so don't have the time for this new social stuff.

As time goes on and the knowledge gap grows the neurotypicals start to spot that the neurodivergents act differently the them and their learned pack mentality trains them that different is bad and they often end up bullying the neurodivergents because they believe everyone should "just fit in".

This often leads the neurodivergents to pull away from social groups and thus the skills grap grows even more.

However in spite of the social gap, the neurodivergent has an amazing brain that is often able to use its ability to take in so much info to become an expert in its chosen area, or can become great at organising some things in ways that neurotypicals cannot.

It is a bit of a superpower at times but we often end up damaged from bullying or overload of our senses.

I think this explains it and there is potential to make use of his abilities as time goes on, but he will need to learn to cope with the overload that comes with it and the fact that learning social skills will be a signiicant concious effort.

Thank you - this is really interesting - I didn't know this.

Thank you - this is really interesting - I didn't know this.