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Holidays and family activities

ClaireBear71

Hi everyone

I hope someone will have some good advice for me. My daughter is 15 and autistic. We are currently on holiday with all of the lack of routine and unfamiliarity that brings.

We have planned our week around one activity per day with rest times in between. Our daughter is struggling massively and had a meltdown when we were out today.

My husband is struggling with not being able to do as much as a family as he would like. He thinks she is somehow being selfish and not doing things for others and she should learn to adapt.

We are paying for counselling for her but she's only had 4 sessions so it's not had time to have any impact.

I want to do things as a family too but dragging her to places in my opinion isn't going to work because she will melt down and everyone will be miserable. 

Does anyone have any advice please? 

Many thanks

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  • Just one thought. I was wondering what triggered the meltdown, so you might be able to avoid a similar situation. For example changing the time you go out. The last holiday we went on my son liked going in the pool, but then the next day it was too busy. We also found it difficult finding somewhere to get a drink that was quiet enough for him.

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  • Just one thought. I was wondering what triggered the meltdown, so you might be able to avoid a similar situation. For example changing the time you go out. The last holiday we went on my son liked going in the pool, but then the next day it was too busy. We also found it difficult finding somewhere to get a drink that was quiet enough for him.

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