Hi,
My name is Jack (removed by mod) and I have serious Aspergers and mild Tourettes and OCD.
On my 18th Birthday last year 22/12/2013, my Father and Mother had an arguement after I told my Mother some of the cruel things he said to me about her. When my best friend and I left to meet my Sister, my parents argued and Father left. I felt guilty due to him leaving after I told my Mother all the cruel things he said.
But on Christmas Day we got a call from Father's best friend called (removed by mod) who told us that Father had been having an affair against my Mother for three months and was living with a woman he met those three months ago in (removed by mod). I was full of rage and anger and wanted answers. In anger I had been avoiding contact with my Father only to find that he has contacted me multiple days of multiple weeks. He has had three girlfriends since he ran off and I know this by looking at his Facebook. He emailed me a photo of him and his new girlfriend and this really angered me. I want serious answers but I know he will not give it to me and I cannot ask him because even trying to find out why he cheated on my Mother would result in betraying my Mother. Everyone else says I should talk to him but I know that he will lie to me if I ask him. He is a lier and a cheat. He only talks about himself and never understood my Tourettes and servere Aspergers.
What can I do to get through this stressful time?
Thanks.
Jack.
